AHEM, [BLUSH] RECEIVING ORAL SEX..... AM I A TOTAL FREAK?

[sparemyblushessochangedmyname]

Right, dh and i have always had a good sex life. I love giving him blow jobs and indulging in a little mutual masturbation.
However, I really don't like receiving oral sex. it makes me uncomfortable and self conscious. I dont like losing control (although I do orgasm through masturbation and "normal" sex) when I'm drunk and we try it, i enjoy it, but can't relax when sober.

Am I a freak? There has to be someone else out there who feels like this.

Am a regular mner BTW, but namechanged

Oh, god knows really, but they are regarded as mumsnet heroin!

pmsl at "mumsnet heroin"

am baffled my ds drinks them sometimes

On certain threads fruitshoots cause outrage

And if you mention Ribena...

???

Personally Oral is fab, I am not too botheed with Bj'a but I love recieving.Hoewever I ahve to beall clean and 'fresh' to really go fo rit :0

I am v v ppiseed so excuse tyoing and spellings

Crunchie - you're ace! What's better on a Friday night? What's the fruit shoot thing then - i don't get it?

well i think clean and fresh is the only way to go really!!

Fruitshoot - it's a mumsnet thing. Considered bad thing to give your child.

ooh, a tmi thread
i used to be like this about receiving oral. always put it down to my first time being a really v hideous and scary experience followed by a rape (as you do)... but i did like to keep trying .. to see what all the fuss was about...

mostly tho, i just felt v self concious uncomfortable, unnatractive etc etc. not conducive to good times.

dp, however, is the MASTER at it and makes me v happy indeed in this respect. ecstatically so .

so i decided to shack up with him and have babies and grow old together. prudent, no?

Oh right, sorry I'm pretty!.......new to this stuff and didn't get the fruit shoot joke! why is that bad? Cos of the additive thing?

yes, tis the additives. tho tbh, i dont know what they are or what they do.

Lillya - i am new to this site as well

Laughing at the way the oral sex thread has descended into talking about blackcurrant juice!

Though I think it's my fault for raising fruitshoots !!!

seriously? an oral sex thread is now about fruit shoots??
[shakes head and wanders off muttering under breath]

it wasnt a joke ive een informed its a bad thing for some reason and thats a great reason to shack nappies

Nappies - sorry! was my fault.

Right, back to the smut...

Are you lot for real?

douse your flange area in fruit shoot.

sexy sex sleezey smutty porno style filthy nastyness has that lowered the tone from fruit shoots for you????

it's great! Check out my other thread!

what thread

_Chat :24 years ago tomorrow I

There are men who have a hard time reaching orgasm (although this is more common in women), and some of them enjoy sex for its own sake, even when they know that orgasm isn't going to happen.

And of course there are men who aren't too keen on blow jobs. Men, like women, are not all the same.

(And froot shoots are vile - gross things masquerading as nice. Almost as annoying as the whole 'milky bar' thing, at least to me.)