AHEM, [BLUSH] RECEIVING ORAL SEX..... AM I A TOTAL FREAK?

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Right, dh and i have always had a good sex life. I love giving him blow jobs and indulging in a little mutual masturbation.
However, I really don't like receiving oral sex. it makes me uncomfortable and self conscious. I dont like losing control (although I do orgasm through masturbation and "normal" sex) when I'm drunk and we try it, i enjoy it, but can't relax when sober.

Am I a freak? There has to be someone else out there who feels like this.

Am a regular mner BTW, but namechanged

I think you're all disgusting perverts and I would never do anything like this, ever.
Have you tried one of those vibrating eggs on your "man in a boat"?

I don't like it, makes me very uncomfortable. DH likes doing it though

Oh dear Olivia . I must say I only ever climaxed if I?m on top (self or mutual masturbation aside).

climax even

Everyone likes different things so I don't think you're a freak at all.

I love it though and Dh is amazingly good at it.

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If dh got his way it'd be like the oral equivalent of that couple on the Fast show that have sex everywhere but I'm not complaining.

I think it is a thing about learning how to let go and stop wondering what you look like/smell like/sound like etc

So what's the egg thing like, LordVenger. Has a friend of yours tried one out?

Why, pray tell, did they shape it like an egg? Doesn't it roll off or do you have to sit on it like a chicken hatching an egg?

Ooooh sweet, you could have a regular clutch of them.

God knows what they'd hatch into, mind

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OMG tis the greatest thing ever. Plus it's rude to refuse a gift

Hate it, hate it, hate it.
I can happily come through intercourse but if the bloke tries to do it with his hands or anything else, I just lie there looking at the ceiling wishing I didn't have to make happy noises when it is just so embarrassing

And I know one bloke was really good at it as well, I could tell, but I'm just not into it...

not a freak I think it is completely over-rated and eww when they try and kiss you after.

Olivia, I only learnt how last year...I'm 34...two kids...

It is only a matter of letting go. Before that I was like you

lol @ ladylush - norty lady. I think I must be a prude. I fake enjoyment of it.. although with some men have done that with the intercourse (actually with most of them).

Think men watch too much porn and think that every woman wants to perform and receive what they watch. Same goes for the guy wanting to observe woman masturbating..

For filthy ladies with their minds in their pants, instead of set upon ways of helping the poor: vinrating eggs here

tbh I don't like it when a man is not shaven

ok. can i ask a question?

those of you who have sex but never reach orgasm-what is the point?

if you are not deriving pleasure from something, then why bother doing it?

and i don't understand the not being able to relax during oral sex thing either. if you are 'relaxed' enough to be rudey nudey with someone and have them do things to you, then what odds does it make?

shaven men??? eeewwwwwww

Darn spam filter!

Lord Venger - available in all good high street shops?

Hi awen Yes norty me ime intercourse is more hit + miss than oral sex. Always guaranteed of an orgasm

why dont most men bother to tend their front and back yards? I know tmi but when i started dating dp he did, now we have been together for a while, expecting etc (not had sex for a while) he has gone 'wild'. Very irrating as he moults like chewbacca and the loo is like a furry beast. men...

Just quickly too.. have you ever wondered why men snore when lying on their backs? Their testicles fall down and cover their anus obscuring their airway

stubble - itchy and yuk!

have to say love balls can be fun.. especially when shopping .. oh those younger days !