Threesomes!!!

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What's the reality of threesomes? Fantasy am enjoying at the moment, boyfriend wants us to find the third, but am reluctant as to what this would do to our relationship. To be honest, am a heterosexual woman who isn't attracted to women at all, but enjoy a little bit of imagination during sex, & of course boyfriend wants this (MFF) so much, turns him on a great deal. Am happy with just the fantasy & think we risk our relationship if we invite the third into our relationship. Share yo experiences please. Thanks

If you're not attracted to women, suggest an MFM then, at least you'll get something. Otherwise one woman will just be sat there watching.

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Seems pretty obvious to me; you're not attracted to women so keep it in fantasy land where it belongs! Threesomes aren't really a one has a go then the other one has a go deal, hence the word threesome.

MMF threesomes happen without the men being intimate with each other so I don't see why a MFF can't if that's what you want. You might want to get more involved for curiosities sake once you get going.

tell him you'd like fmm, I bet he won't want a threesome then
they are fine if everyone wants it, but sounds like you don't.

Why has it got to be FMF? How would he respond to the suggestion of MFM? I’m guessing in his head he’s imagining having 2 gorgeous women “ service” him when in fact he’s required to satisfy the needs of 2 women. Different thing altogether.

A friend tried this. The reality was her bf was paying way too much attention to the new woman and um, the act ended quickly in the other woman. Friend kicked off, awful fight ensued and relationship ended.

I had a mmf threesome once. I wouldn't be interested in involving another woman and I wouldn't do it again. Not because it was bad but it was a bit 'meh'.

Showmeshoyu, I suggested It but he said MMF doesn't do anything for him, he's only interested in MFF.

I couldn't share lol.

And even though he knows that wouldn't do anything for you, he still wants it anyway?

Why would he think it's different for you?

Yes, but MFF doesn’t do anything for you...

I wouldn't do mff, I'm not attracted to women. Doing it for his fantasy would be awful.

I think this something best done with three single people, it's a totally different dynamic to a couple and third.

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This reminds me of a quip in a card I saw years ago which made me laugh: "If you can't please one woman, why piss off two?!"

he's only interested in MFF because he's only interested in his own pleasure and not so much in yours.

My OH has mentioned this & has dabbled in previous relationships but it's definitely not for me & I have told him it's a never from me.. I couldn't watch him with another woman it would kill me with jealousy as I'm not at all body confident also a big part of why I couldn't do mmf along with the feeling that if he was really into me how could he watch me with another man & not go mad with jealousy... I just can't understand how you can separate sex from feelings... I think in a LTR it could so easily be the death of it.. I would not be prepared to risk it just to make his fantasy come true!

Truth is I have recently enjoyed fantasising with him about being with another woman but that's as far as it goes, it seems wonderful in that fantasy moment. I have thought that maybe it would be amazing but again I feel he might treat her or say something to her during sex that might piss me off and that would ruin the amazing relationship we have.

My hubby loves the idea of a FFM threesome,he says the idea of 2 women together is 'hot' however I don't think that after all these years together he's realised that if a woman fancies a fish dinner for 2 then she would have made it happen by now after all women are quite resourceful

TheLazyDuchess, my thoughts exactly, best as single people who with no emotional attachment.

‘a fish dinner for 2’

Are you 14, teapot ?

If he's not prepared to do the mmf for you I don't se why on Earth you would do the mff for him! Tell him swapsies or else.

How about an MMM then, you just go to for a Chinese and a pint and leave them to it.

What’s a fish dinner for two?

I'm not 14 and call it a fish dinner for two, how else would you describe it?
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I couldn't do with the humiliation stuff, I'd draw the line here and can't understand that mentality, but each to their own, I'm not judging.