GRATITUDE LIST - 5 positive things about your DP/DH please...

[Ifonlyhewould]

... every day.

Go on, give it a go

hard working
patient with kids as I am not
gets up in night with baby
honest
knows everything about me, yet doesn't judge.

In fact is up there now, with my DD (can hear on monitor) and is shushing her to sleep.

He's a decent bloke, no need to go into the whys n wherefores, he just is.

Ahhh...you all have such wonderful partners! This is such a deliciously loved-up thread. My FH (Fab Husband) is:

1. Gorgeous
2. Great fun
3. Caring - even though it's his birthday he still came home from a crappy day at work and did all the cooking and washing up and FORCED me to have a relaxing bath as I'd had an awful day with our beautiful, beautiful son who he gave me
4. Creative
5. The world's most awesome birth partner
6. Fab Dad

Wish I could go and cuddle him but he's tucked up in 'bed' in the living room so our frequently-waking DS and I can share the bed. Bless.

He is brave, strong and brainy.

He can fix anything.

And he has marvellous forearms. My particular weakness...

1. Always gets us out of the house on fun excursions on the weekends
2. Very loving and caring
3. Loves taking the DC out on errands
4. Lets me spend money without question
5. Gets the DC up on the weekend so I can have a lie in

1. He worships the very quicksand I walk on!
2. Is fab dad to DS
3. Has patience by the shedload
4. tells me he loves me daily
5. I trust him with my life

I Love this thread!! Has really made me smile..

1/Makes me laugh-alot.
2/Fantastic shag
3/The best step-dad that my DS's could ever want.
4/Quietly accepts my Ugg boot habit even though I know he despises them.
5/Is buying me the pink aga I've always dreamed of.
6/Is happy for me to constantly paw him and touch him in an "I can't believe my bloody luck" way!!

1. He worships me
2. He never asks any questions (about money, going out)
3. He's so much fun
4. He's loyal
5. He's gorgeous

do I have to stop at 5 or can I go on?

1. He works hard to provide for us
2. He loves us
3. When he remembers how to be, he is the most fun person I know
4. He rests his head on mine when he's asleep
5. He has a fab bum and really, really sexy fore-arms

5.5. And gorgeous eyes

1. Super excellent step father
2. Smiles at dogs in the street
3. Rip roaringly funny
4. Great, unselfish lover
5. Doesn't mind my big round bum

He cooks, yum, healthy food.
He is sensitive and tells me he loves me often.
He is being very supportive during this long, difficult pg...
He is dealing with stressful moving issues.
He's kind, caring and very beautiful.

1 Almost always makes me laugh when I'm in a strop

2 Is my best friend

3 Imaginative and thoughtful (yet also assertive) in bed

4 Loves ds with a passion that tbh puts mine to shame

5 Fancies me whatever I weigh (and that has varied from 18.5 stone to 12stone - so quite a variety)

6 Supports me in pretty much anything I want to do.

7 Remembers when I tell him things
Is one of the most truly feminist men I know

8 Is incredibly intelligent (a professor and all that) but doesn't make me feel stupid.

9 Is usually happy and positive in his outlook

10 Just lets me be me and loves me as I am

I could go on ....

After this thread last night I left a note out for DH saying 'You're so cool.' He was very chuffed.

1-Hugely trustworthy
2-Principled and ethical - with principles and ethics that I admire.
3-Affectionate - gives the best hugs in the world
4-Comes up with brilliant, spontaneous things to do - bbq on the beach on a sunny evening with bunch of friends etc

thanks for this thread, was worried I might struggle to find 5 as have been bit depressed recently, but I did! and could have found more!

hey!!! My number 5 spotaneously deleted itself ! It was about him being sociable, confident and outgoing and fun to be around.

1. REALLY funny
2. brainy and interesting
3. kind and brilliant with kids
4. stable and self-assured
5. great arse

handsome
kind and sensitive
funny
cooks willingly after work
loves me

He is clever and sharp.
He brings me a cup of tea in bed every morning if he is not working away.. even weekends.
He works VERY hard to make a comfy life for me and kids.
He taught me to drive and kept his patience.
He shares the housework most of the time and always cuts the grass.

I cannot think of one good thing to say, let alone 5...This thread has certainly been an eyeopener thats for sure.

You are all very very lucky ladies!!

1)He's an excellent cook
2)He's loving and caring
3)He doesn't mind me being overweight
4)He's an amazing father
5)He Looks after me always
6)He's very sexy
7)He looks after me in every way

1 - generous in all ways
2 - kind hearted
3- always positive and thoughtful
4- cup of tea in bed every morning
5- always helps with dinner/kids/tasks
And he also has gorgeous blue eyes, a cheeky smile, a wonderful mischievous streak and quite a nice arse.

mucky anthea.
Why?

Because:
He does not tell me he loves me
He NEVER makes me coffee/tea
Never cooks
Never does housework
Never hugs me voluntarily
Never tells me I'm attractive
Never looks after me when I am sick - even when I was nearly killed in a bus accident when the driver fell asleep he did not blink an eyelid
He never tells me when he is going to be late for work
He never ever contacts me during the day either by phone or sms
Never contacts me when he is away on business, so I never know when he is coming home
Never pours me a drink when he pours one for himself
oooh I could go on, but I won't.

Sorry ladies - let get back to your positives shall we...

1. He is a very gentle person
2. He is intelligent
3. He is funny and charismatic
4. He is always willing to help out
5. He is a wonderful Dad

1. (because it is a biggie) He puts up with me - even when I am hormonal!