NC Dignity Club Pt 4: The Only Way Is Up

[Basseting]

Welcome to the No Contact Dignity Club Part 4

If you are aiming for it, trying to maintain it, being 'offered' it, coming back to it... NC support is here!

I know. I just had this feeling Day 30 and the moon. Now it's nothing much but I'm replying with messages of the same length

Omg omg NK?!?

I'm okay. I was right not to go to the event. He was there. Glad I stayed away. It's just general chit chat

It'll be very interesting to see Oldbook if he does contact you then

Glad you are ok NK. Truthfully are you eagerly awaiting his replies?
Sorry Oldbrook I must have missed something will go back and try and find it.

nk how bizarre what with the 30 days and the blue moon. I hope you're ok.

Ok sorry Oldbrook do you think he kept you waiting on purpose? Yes agree with NK you are in control now. I also see the Florence nightingale. Where I can clearly see someone has issues I warm to them even more. My lookalikeNC has surgery on Friday. I want to message over the weekend just to say I hope it went well. My friend said f* him.

NK I feel like I am post watching so maybe overly invested in your messaging situ this evening

Anxious funnily enough I'm not as eager as I was for the messages. It's just the same old shallow stuff and dancing around issues but saying nothing. Also online and not responding for a few mins. That's not my style. If I'm online I'll respond straight away.

Just been out to look at the moon...Not a hint of blue

NK so maybe the blue moon made him.message to show you that you really aren't as bothered anymore? Really good sign that you aren't as eager

Oldbrook oh poor him annoyed at woman so kept you waiting. Scarred?! The cheek of him. The Oldbrook now wouldn't put up with that.

Hi itsa are you Ok? It just looks really bright doesn't it. I want my moon in my garden to be blue and me to get texts

Wow NK ! Are you Ok?(())

I'm missing my 1 year NC guy tonight, totally.
I'm desperate tonight , been searching websites like "how to get your exbf back" all evening, reading lots it.
Is this blue moon affect on me? Why him ? Why not true NC? Why do I want him back after he told me he doesn't want a relationship and hopes I'll find my Mr Right ?

I haven't contacted him at all but feeling is very strong , memories of his house and his bedroom are surfacing in my head, happy memories..

I am as usual up and down, wish I could blame it on the moon. I would love to get a message but know it won't happen. I think I am not mourning him but the fact that I am so rubbish at relationships that I will be on my own forever.

If it makes you all feel any better my messages are all just surface talk. So not sure why he bothered contacting me. I'm surface talking back. I used to try and prolong the conversation because I was so worried it would end but now I'm like whatever

Well he's thinking about you NK and who knows maybe he went into NC standoff with you , to level emotions out

Lol @Basseting that was meant to say FIND another one!

And the more the merrier under my blanket! I have homemade marshmallow...

You can all keep of my kinky bearded pianist though! If anyone finds one- he's mine!!!

Maybe he did Teens. I'm kind of at a loss as to why he made contact

OK can I have a handhold please. I don't know if it's this damn moon but everything has just toppled for me and I'm crying hysterically. Thought I was doing so well getting over ex, but just today I really miss him.
He's going away somewhere with another girl, my 2 closest friends are going to be away, and I really want to be around people this weekend and not be thinking about ex having the time of his life without me.
Also gonna have to sell my house (saw lawyer today). Have to back to renting.

Teens and It's maybe it is this damn moon!

Thanks Oldbook
Yes it is a long weekend and it's our wedding anniversary next week! (or 'the thing we used to celebrate but don't now' as he kindly told me last week).He's done some selfish but legal things (don't want to go into detail)
Sorry I don't seem to come here much but to moan (is such a fast thread! don't get much time to read it all sorry) but I really hope everyone is doing OK. I think we all need to realise we're not alone and its good to have support - I've enjoyed reading the success stories! stay strong everyone!