Found you all. Thread hopped through 3 threads...this thread moves fast!
Hanging my head and checking in. I don't want it to be this way but he doesn't want a relationship.
Together 9 years, he ended things last sept but starting seeing each other consistently and having sleep overs.
Today I flipped...
We'd bought a house which is now technically mine. I'm getting a rescue pair of dogs and needing to get the fence sorted in garden.
He said harmlessly this morning in a text....money is there if u need it for your fence.
I got upset at the term 'your fence'. It was suppose to be our fence, our house. I didn't and don't want this break up but it's happened and he doesn't want to be in a relationship.
So I think I've gone a bit bonkers and sent him this.
Yes my dignity is in tatters and hanging head low. He's not responded but in honesty can he say. He can't feel, what he doesn't feel
Mortifying text I sent -
Please answer the following: which of the below statements apply to your current intentions
U can choose more than one answer or reply 'decline' if none apply.
A) Meet up once in a while
B) To share adventures and experiences with, whilst having adventures of own also
C) casual sex
D) see each other regularly
E) to speak on the odd occasion
F) exclusivity
G) get behind and support through crap times and celebrate good times
H) No romantic intentions
Thank you for your time, pls don't be offended if you don't hear back