What's the worst thing a DH/DP has ever said to you?

[Norky1975]

Mine include
"Are you doing any ironing this week?"

'My ex was a model, how shit does that make you feel?'

After a pregnancy scare 'you're trying to trap me on purpose, do you really think I'd want a baby with YOU'

'I hope you know that no man will ever take you on if we broke up'

Called me lazy, boring, bitch, c word etc etc.

Nice guy!

I wish I'd never married you. Some years later we're now divorcing and he keeps wailing that he doesn't want the divorce.

Very ExP - I hope you die a long slow painful death, you fat, disgusting cunt.

After every word a punch in the followed, my Mum didn't recognise me in the hospital the next day, it was the only time I've ever seen my Dad cry. I never went back.

He's dead now, thank fuck!

*face

I lost weight and he said I look like a melted candle to justify his affair. He's an ex now.

"Anal psycho"

"Don't threaten me" - when I wanted to talk.about my current job (at the time and being bullied)

"You make it hard to love you"

"I know I told you you'd let yourself go (as a reason for not having sex with me) , but, actually, it was because I was resentful of you getting me in this situation" (situation was he was married with 2 kids, his own kids)

Acorn-cocked wanker. ExDH thankfully

Oh and another one from my ex - after he had raped me, told me that I was a disgusting cunt because I had laid there and not got into it. And he used to stick his hand down my knickers when I came in from work to check I hadn't had sex with anyone else while I was out.

My STBH has called me a cunt. Among other things that one was the one I remember at the top of the list most. Horrid. X

Sorry my STBXH I mean x

After talking about our first, much anticipated sexual encounter "it didn't even touch the sides "

I got out of the car in the middle of nowhere and walked home, turns out the problem was him and not me but his comment messed with my head for years and years, totally shattering my confidence as I had two very difficult labours and really believed I had a fanjo like a wizard's sleeve...

Oh God, so many

On our wedding day - How dare you have smiled at me during the vows. I was taking our vows seriously.

I'm only punching the wall so I don't punch your face

Giving birth to DC 3 - Come on hurry up I'm tired. You should know how to do it by now

18 fucking years before I left the abusive prick, I believed I was a useless, worthless piece of shit. I wish mumsnet was around then.

Ohb0llocks that sounds horribly familiar

Wingsofdesire you've just reminded me of the time my ex said 'I am sick and tired of you abusing your right to safety'. Basically any time that I stood up to him or questioned his tirade of expletives he was being a total saint for NOT punching me in the face.

A few times I actually did wish he'd just hurry up and smack me in the face, because then I'd have a concrete reason to leave.

I've never told anyone that before.

My ex-h was pretty abusive during our 14 year marriage but I didn't realise it at the time, it's been tons of counselling that made me realise what an utter cunt he really was. Some of the gems he came out with when he left me and our 2 yo DS for OW :

I don't love you, never have, don't want to spend our anniversary, my birthday or Christmas with you.
You're mental/psycho
I only stayed to protect your daughter from you (!)
I hope you die of cancer
You're just like your mother, a miserable waste of space sat in the corner (my mother was 5 stone, bald, ravaged by chemo and 2 weeks from death)
You have no family and no friends (er no, that's you, you utter prick)
You wear DS's autism like a badge for sick attention.
You're bitter and twisted and I will make sure DS hates you when he grows up.
Your are an empty vessel and parasite, existing for one purpose to cause pain and upset.
Look at your empty bed and wonder why you're so alone.

I had similar from OW (really really nasty malicious crap from her). This is a really small snapshot. The irony is, he's abandoned DS and no longer sees him. A total waste of space. He couldn't bear it that I didn't congratulate them on their affair and wish them well, hence the above. There are some awful stories on here, for everyone.

You fucking slag

Fuck off back to xxxx where no one likes you there either

Said to my son: Fuck off and be a benefits kid with your benefits mother

"why don't you just top yourself?" in front of our young son.

Ex

After begging him to take me to the hospital as I was bleeding and pregnant. He finally reduced me to tears while I was sat in the floor with cramps.
He spat in my face and said
"I dont know why im having a kid with a pathetic piece of shit like you"

Shortly after a huge gush of blood. I lost the baby and left him two days later after he said
"What kind of woman cant carry a baby"

Chicken that is horrific.

My God there's some bastards out there

Fucking hell. This thread is just an appalling read. I am so relieved to see how many of you describe these "men" as exes.

I hope you are all safe now.

Benbenben85 I hope you are OK

Hey Mrsc! Glad that prick isn't in yr lovely ds's life these days. x

'Don't fucking push me, or I'll puy you through that fucking wall'!

STBExH WN (wank narcissist)

chicken

omg.

"What the fuck is wrong with you now?" as I sat in my mum's house crying to myself on the day of her funeral.

Yeah he was a monster...

My life isnt perfect now. Dh could be a bit more sensitive and be on his xbox less but hes just a sulky man and hes given me twi beautiful children who he adores.

Keep yourself safe all of you! Xxx

This makes for unbelievably grim reading.. Really sorry to all the posters that have had to listen to or experience these awful things. Delighted to read that these abusive assholes are exes.

notonething your ex was wanking next to you while you were breastfeeding your baby? That's so fucking sick.

It's all so sick.