What's the worst thing a DH/DP has ever said to you?

[Norky1975]

Mine include
"Are you doing any ironing this week?"

*NotOneThingButAnother
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That's really creeped me out!! He was wanking whilst watching you breastfeed? I'm sorry I would have had the bastard out on the street for that. Fucking weirdo.

So sorry to read these responses.
How awful,

Some things I've had said to me

Worst mother in the world
Lazy
Stupid
You Should of tried harder at school
Your perfetic

You need to take a long hard look at yourself
I don't do anything
He criticises EVERYTHING I do and how I do it

He doesn't have a clue about how much I actually do, do

'When we get home I'm going straight to bed. I'm sleeping in the spare room tonight because I'm tired'

A few hours after I'd given birth to our son. We also had a 16 month old daughter.

Fucking hell. Some of these have made me cry.

"I hate you!"

Screamed down the phone at me by exH as I held our baby in my arms, having fled to my parents for some respite from his abuse.

frieda that might have been the one time I didn't wash my hands after using the loo and before preparing food. Cheeky bastard.

im really glad to her you all referring to them as ex nobody deserves this kind of abuse. reading these stories has really hit home with me and some have brung tears to my eyes. i am off to namechange then share my story as my current name is too outing .
for all who have shared on this thread and for having the courage to get out of these realtionships

Good grief. Seems I've had it easy.
I had to stop reading.
These are truly awful.
I feel for all of you.
And I want to hug you all
But it's truly inspiring to see most of these are Ex's
I'm shocked.
Well done all of you for getting the fuck out.
Respect!!!

ConfusedNoMore Hello! Thanks lovely. Yes, courageous as ever he was. Emailed the school at Christmas to tell them he was "severing all ties" and could they let me know. They did. We all cheered .

Agree you are all so inspiring these sad, disgusting wankers are exs.

STBXH has said awful thjngs to me, although not in the league of the above

• called me a cunt so many times im totally desensitised, also a bitch
• you're a joke and everyone thinks so
• My mum thinks youre mad, everyone thinks you are mad

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Wow! That's great though he's such a shit to do it, but better to have him away from yr ds. Let the odious creature fester with pineapple Pauline and his vileness.

Confused, yes indeed...! I wish I could expand more

My ex told me he wouldn't piss on my mother if she was on fire. I took great pleasure calling crimewatch to dob him in when I recognised him bungling a robbery in a building society. Karma....

It's interesting isn't it, that we're all "mad". Never before have I read such a vile display of projection and narc abusive behaviour in one thread. They're all somebody else's problem now...and all of women will no doubt be posting here in years to come...there are some evil people in this world.

Wow! Despite having numerous boyfriends in my youth and now my DH, I've never been spoken to like many of you describe and nobody was ever violent.

I'm horrified there are so many assholes out there.

There is some very tough reading here. For me, it was bad but seems a bit daft in comparison. I will share anyway in case it is of use to anyone wondering if hearing similar is ok (it bloody well isn't ok):

1 I deserve a gorgeous partner. You're alright in clothes but I'd be so ashamed to be with you at the beach

2 You are nothing but a mouthpiece for your dad's parochial socialist views

3 You and your sister have been raised to think you're special with your Dad making toast for your Mum every night but you're nothing

I could go on and on. Textbook EA bastards that I eventually left after a couple of physical incidents. For context: I was overweight but no different to the day he met me, he'd just starting snagging someone else, we did have differing political views and I am from a small town but I am also educated and secure in my OWN opinions, his Dad was a nasty shite to his Mum.

'There's no way I'm not having sex on my wedding night.'

'You made me a promise and I'm holding you to it.' (When I was trying to end the marriage)

Gosh, I posted without reading the whole thread.

Mine's nothing compared to what some of you have endured.

My heart goes out to you all.

When I told him I was pregnant he got mad as hell and started an investigation into "how did this happen?" + subsequently accused me on missing pills on purpose. He told me it "wasn't the right time for him" even though A DAY before when I said my period was late he told me not to worry and that he'd be with me no matter what. He then proceeded to pretty much ignoring me for a few weeks (he needed "head space" because of all the "stress" and said he wanted to give me "the time to consider OPTIONS" - thereby gently manipulating me into an abortion.)

Btw he wasn't some chav, he is head of media for the local hospital and "the nicest guy" apparently - as he'd have everyone else believe. Fucking psychopath.

He also called me a "cunt" in an argument which was completely uncalled for. He's done it with a gentle smile just to test my boundaries and see if I give him pushback. Fucking psychopath.

Mine was an abusive fuck from day one
Telling 16 yr old me his friends want to know why he was going out with such a fat bird (I was healthy size 10/12) then laughed as he said well we don't look at the mantle piece when we stoke the fire!
Told me he was too embarrassed to be seen with me when I was 9 months pregnant with baby 3.
Told me I was a fat lazy smelly bitch
On coming home from hospital with baby and stitches demanded sex otherwise he'd go elsewhere
Told me that if I dared divorce him after affairs he'd have me sectioned and take the kids
Threatened to rip my head off if I did anything wrong
Taunted me that he was going to kick me out and move ow in I was so replaceable
He was going to make my life a living Hell and he didn't love me and never had
I was a pathetic worthless piece of shit he'd scraped out of the gutter and I should be grateful that he allowed me to stay for so long (until I wasn't needed any more) and now he parades around telling all and sundry how awful his life's been and how he raised kids single handed
God I'd better stop could go on forever
for everyone on here, we didn't deserve any of it x

My now ex told me that my job was more like a hobby really.

I'm the creative director of a company I set up. Fuming.

Oh and I've not even included all the "psycho" etc comments / suggestions - I might have been at the time to be fair with him headfucking me so hard! I remember one time when I found out his texts to escorts he'd deny it and call me mad, crazy and the whole narc projection crap, up until I shown him proof - he then immediately started crying (!!) and asking for forgiveness. What a pathetic loser.

When he asked me to send him a saucy text to keep our long distance relationship alive, and he told me the next day he kept thinking of my text and fantasizing about the women in his office

and when he told me he didn't like me on top as he didn't like the way my fat wobbled

Actually (again so not that bad in comparison for all you strong women posting here) was after years of "why do you need them? You have me" bullshit was, " just go home to people like you". You'd think he lived in a hice with a deer park rather than an average semi opposite some shops in Ellesmere Port. Twat.