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NoCapes thread 3 - flying solo

190 replies

NoCapes · 28/10/2016 16:36

Thread 3 Shock

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kaitlinktm · 22/11/2016 11:38

NoCapes are you OK?

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 11:42

Yes I'm ok thanks kaitlin Smile

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 13:00

Dude I saw that you're coming off your other thread so I thought I'd come over here and say fuck em, you didn't deserve all the sanctimonious, patronising, nasty shit that got thrown at you. Take it easy pal x

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 13:06

Thanks SV
Sometimes I love this place, other times I absolutely despair!

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 13:07

Yeah I hear you! That's why I disappear and then come back with a new name Grin that way the bitches can't find me Grin chin up pal, we all know you're a hero!

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 13:08

Haha I get it definitely
I like my name though

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 13:11

Your name is awesome!

Mix56 · 22/11/2016 15:24

me too capes, I saw that... I hope you are all feeling better

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 15:48

Thanks Mix we're OK thankyou, MamaCapes has brought some stew round Smile to the rescue again bless her!

I'm just ignoring that other thread now, it's all got a bit silly and no-one is really reading what I'm saying so I'll just forget it

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 15:49

I've reported it for being full of arseholes. It's why I left again, and MNHQ really need to get on top of the nasty cunts on here!

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 16:03

The responses are getting slower & slower from MNHQ, maybe they're understaffed
I'd love to be MNHQ, surfing the boards all day telling people off Grin

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loobyloo1234 · 22/11/2016 16:14

I saw it too NoCapes - was just about to dive in to stand up for you but sometimes I just think fuck them ignore them. I find even some of the long term posters to be so unbearably judgmental. Best to hide a thread if people start pissing you off. Glad you're ok. Hope the kids feel better soon Flowers

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 16:29

Thanks loo
This thread restores my faith in this site Smile

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NoCapes · 22/11/2016 16:44

Have to admit I was very close to ringing ExP today
For all his faults he was always very protective of me (I know I know, it was possessive not protective) but he was, and if anyone upset me or disrespected me he would absolutely tear them a new one (the irony isn't lost on me don't worry)

Today really brought home how much I used to rely on him to look after me like that

Gonna have to grow some lady balls in future aren't I 😕

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 16:49

I'm glad you didn't Capes, I completely understand the urge to do it, don't get me wrong, but I'm really glad you resisted it.
Fuck the arseholes on that other thread, they're just twats.

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 17:17

I know, I know I'm flagging a dead horse trying to get them to understand but it's bugging me that they've all drawn their own conclusions on me without actually listening to me
I should give up, but stubbornness is one of my worst qualities so I'm sure I'll be on it all night Blush

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 17:33

I might have just gone a bit nuts on the other thread Capes they're pissing me right off!

Mix56 · 22/11/2016 17:42

It took a while to discover it was because all the kids were sick ... had you said, (& you did not need to justify yourself)
up all night, Baby & small kids have D & V what are these fuckers doing on my doorstep? it would have been another story !

0SometimesIWonder · 22/11/2016 17:59

I saw your other thread this morning Capes, but I've been out all day and haven't read it since I got back; there are some nasty people in the world and a great many of them hide behind a keyboard and screen.
It's the only way they have of airing the nonsense in their heads.
Power to you Capes for already having grown the balls (well, you didn't call him did you, not to mention coping the past few weeks ?).

NoCapes · 22/11/2016 18:17

Possibly Mix but tbh some people seem determined to be on the schools' side regardless
I tried not to include too much detail in the OP as the Daily Mail would love it, but I should know by now you have to include every small detail straight away or you get accused of being 'inconsistent' 🙄

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SVJAA · 22/11/2016 18:30

I hate folk who say a load of goady shite on here knowing fine that they're anonymous but wouldn't dare say it in RL for fear of being knocked out!!!

SVJAA · 22/11/2016 18:32

MNHQ have commented calling for peace and love.

Hidingtonothing · 22/11/2016 18:57

I've just said my piece over there, suspect we're all wasting our time though, the overzealous do gooder brigade are out in force. Why do people seem incapable of exercising any common sense these days? Kids off school for a day or two doesn't warrant this level of interference, it's intrusive and unnecessary and I'm not surprised them coming round made you anxious Capes. This kind of state meddling is part of the reason I home educate, I'm perfectly capable of raising my DC without any involvement from the government, as are you. I'm sure you're more than capable of deciding whether they're well enough to go to school without anyone checking up on you, bloody cheek Flowers

loobyloo1234 · 22/11/2016 19:03

People really know how to knock someone down on MN at times. I really don't get it. Too many presumptions by people with nothing better going on

I've just read the last couple of pages ... Frequency has your back Grin

skyyequake · 23/11/2016 09:41

Hey Capes! Sorry you've had some crap on here recently... Some people let the anonymity go to their heads and simply type before they think! some are also judgmental bitches but oh well

Hope you're feeling better today FlowersCake