NoCapes thread 3 - flying solo

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Thread 3

Yes she's on her way to me, should be here by about 8:15 so just going to get all the kids in bed

Ha I'll tell her she's MN approved

Or you could tell me where he is and I'll go and put his dick in a blender for you this!!!!
Your reply was awesome though, and I'm so glad your friend is coming tonight.

She certainly is MN approved! Have some and

Capes if you tell MNHQ about the post with your DD's name in they can change it.

I feel like your mum, please lovely don't put yourself in such a vulnerable position with him again. Don't be alone with him, ever.

Lecture over. Glad your friend is on her way. Keep his latest texts.

Take care, you're awesome.

He's replied -

Well when you put it like that 😕
You know I didn't mean that though don't you? I got carried away, I miss you and you kissed me and I just didn't want it to stop, I got caught up in the moment
I didn't mean to hurt you I'm sorry 😔 I would never intentionally hurt you
I understand if you don't want to see me, but please still go tomorrow, you deserve the treat

???

I've reported my post
Thanks Cary

Oh capes.
You must be feeling shit that's an understatement of the century.
Your reply was amazing. You said no repeatedly and he fucking minimised it the fucker.

You have told one person which is good. Don't keep it a secret, do not hide it, don't let him away with it ever. Even if it isn't reported to the police.

If and when he texts back he will minimise again no doubt or skirt it and ask for the kids. Please make sure there is someone else there for handover. He can't be trusted every again.

((((Hugs)))))

I I I I I is all he ever says! What about YOU, the mother of his children, the woman who loved him and gave him everything he could ever have wanted? I'm glad I don't know where he lives I'd be sorely tempted to smash his teeth in and then pick them up and throw them at him!!! I'd also take a blender and some tweezers because I like Skyye's idea!
In all seriousness though, I'm glad you've got rl support as well as us, and I'm glad he knows the score tomorrow. Look after yourself Capes, you are worth more than you know.

Glad your friend is on her way. Will she be with you over the weekend? Well done for telling a RL person.

Definitely keep that last text Capes, it's an admission

I'd say that's enough to go to the police.

"YOU didn't want it to stop??? Well I did and I said Stop and No a dozen times. But you decided you didn't want it to stop."

"I understand if you don't want to see me" what the fuck this isn't about him this is about you and what he did. He got carried away my Arse that's an excuse and he will try and excuse it all the way as he has done.

Be safe hen and don't let him excuse this.

Fair point, if you're feeling up to it, that is definitely an admission of what he did.

Oh the poor thing, he was so broken up he just had to rape someone, I mean won't you consider his feelings in all this?

That right there Capes is an admission of guilt. I would send a screenshot of that text to every hard drive, cloud drive and memory stick you have, and then print it out and put it in a secure folder for good measure.

He is trying to minimise here. If I were you I'd tell him to shove his spa day up his arse, along with his pathetic "apology" and that you hope the next shit he takes feels like twins.

I was thinking just now that, in some ways, you having slept with him consensually a couple of weeks ago is a good thing in the light of this. You consented and regretted it later but you didn't claim rape because it wasn't. This was a different scenario. And so you have named it accurately as rape :(
He might not have intended it but he did it.
Do keep the text.
Do be honest with your friend. it's hard to say it to someone's face but the first time will be the hardest.

Twin hedgehogs skyye!

Broken glass more like! Lots of it 😡

Oh Capes I'm so sorry. What an absolute bastard he is. So glad your friend is coming over. I would like to punch his stupid face in. Look after yourself x

See if you can get him to agree what he did.

"so you admit that I said No to sex, you heard me say No, and you carried on?"

glad your friend is coming u need someone to talk it through as well as us i mean

cant believe hes making it all about him-fucking bastard

tell him u dont want anything from him anymore except child maintenance

Glad you've got a friend with you tonight

Good evening Capes, really hope having a good friend with you helps unravel the mess your poor head must be in.
Very impressed with your texts and agree with whoever said that they are an admission of guilt as they are, save them and use them.
I've PM'd you

I'm really glad you've got your friend coming to yours. That's great.
I'm also glad you sent that text to him asking how he'd feel if it had been some random that had done the same to you or to your DD in the future. I really hope that makes him think and shit himself.

As a mum though, i desperately want you to tell your mum. Wouldn't you want to know if your DD had experienced something similar?
I'd be gutted if mine kept something like that from me.
You need all the rl support you can get to keep this bully away from you

Hope you had a good night with your friend Capes thinking of you