NoCapes thread 2 - No cape necessary

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Can't believe we've filled up a whole thread
But I'm still not ready to be without you all yet ...

but to you for 'insufferable cunt'
I suppose you're right that it got you over the wobble but surprised at what a short game he played. You'd think he could have made a better stab at spinning you along! Useless pillock.
And he just demonstrated again that he has no respect for you.

fuck the fuck off you insufferable cunt

That's fucking gold!

He really did play a short game
Maybe he's over it too
Maybe one of his other girls is the favourite this week so it's not as important to have me hanging on

Apparently I'm 'taking it all wrong' now
I'm back to ignoring, I just can't be fucked
You can't reason with stupid

What's the Jim Howick line from Horrible Histories? Stay away from the stupid!

Indeed you can't reason with stupid, lord knows I spent nearly a decade trying! The thing is with someone as fundamentally cunty as men like our exes Capes, is that they have to convince themselves that they're right. The alternative of actually facing what a horrible person and utter abject failure they are would make their tiny brains implode!

Stay away from the stupid is a pretty good life motto [smile

aye I think you're right, he's never wrong, for nearly 9 years he's never been wrong, I don't know why I expected anything else this time
Maybe I'll just agree with him - "yes dear you're right I've made a huge mistake I'm sat here in tears oh dear whatever shall I do, now off you pop I've things to do" - yep that should help him

Haha spot on! He will be livid that you've actually had the audacity to make a life for you and the kids without him being able to fuck it all up. Loss of control is a huge deal for pricks like him, but he's going to have to suck it up and fuck off because you're not just going, you've gone!!!! He knows what a massive fuck up he's made by driving you to this, but cunts like him never change, never. You and your kids will be a million times happier without him! How are the kids? X

I wonder if he's told the dc that he'll be home once mummy's stopped being silly?

Your new life can start now. From this moment. Draw the line, and you never have to feel like this again.

The arrogance of him!
He thinks he knows you so well.

I love the though of him reading that text

He prob thought the text was going to tell him he was right!

Stupid he may be, but he is also really, truly, deeply horrible to you.

He treats you with utter contempt.

A contempt that is clear in both his words and his behaviour.

He is a shit man, a crap dad, a hateful partner.

Please never go back to him.

No little girl should grow up seeing her mother treated like he treats you.

Good god Capes, how on earth did someone as completely and utterly fuckwitted as him manage to hang on to someone as switched on and awesome as you for so long? I had no idea his level of stupidity actually existed, he's just blown the teeny tiny, minuscule chance your wobble gave him of worming his way back in because, in his pathetic little pea brain, making you out to be the one in the wrong was more important!!! I'm flabbergasted, there's no other word for it, if we hadn't got the measure of him before he's absolutely shown his true colours tonight. I hope you can see now exactly how well rid you are of him, you're so far out of his league I'm surprised you ever gave him the time of day. Insufferable cunt is spot on and you've suffered enough my lovely, there's so much better out there for you, I hope you can see that now

Jeez! He really is the gift that keeps on giving Loving the text & BTW the best description I could muster for my exh is cunt as nothing was strong enough but I've seen a few suggestions here that are pretty apt ! Capes & Skype for you - you're amazing (& abso-fucking-lutely right to get ride of those thundercunts )

Saw these pics and thought of you Capes and Skyye

wow what an horrendacunt (copyright to aye)

he went out a coupe of times so what? fuckin prick

sorry it came down to that but now you can see what he really thinks

sometimes i hate men

Go Capes!! The idiot just doesn't understand he's authoring his own demise whatever it takes to sustain you

Honestly...he treats you like rubbish for ages, you chuck him out and then he tells you that you know you have made a mistake really? And expects you to agree?
Is he a bit mentally ill do you think? Because I just can't see his logic...

give him this biscuit...I think he needs it.he can fuck off whilst he's eating it...

I actually love you a bit capes, for sending him that message back

We'll he has done exactly as he wanted for 9 years, down to preparing kit & hiding it, & saying he'll sleep on the sofa as the baby wakes him up, this being your fault obviously !
Then sneaking out at night to play Poker.
The elephant in the room is the Poker of course, he likely has an addiction,
Apparently (so far) he hasn't managed to lose all his salary....but he may have debts.
So when he next says he has a house lined up, say one simple word "Perfect" ....

Sorry I'm late! Had an early night last night!

I have nothing to add except to quote the great Ella Eyre

"Let the motherfucker burn!"

I love your text to him Capes!!!
What an utter knobjockey he is. I'm getting bloody cross on your behalf!

So it's the usual 'minimise, deflect, blame' script is it?

Don't let him cause you one minute of doubt. And I'd also explain to the DC that he can't see them in your home - that he really does need to arrange to take them somewhere else. Keep it simple and age appropriate - that he lives somewhere else now. Have they ever fallen out with a friend? Explain it on those terms possibly. While he is still coming into your home, he will still be able to mess with your head.

No more texts, no matter how satisfying they are you are still engaging with him.

One thought to keep you going, ' Yes, mummy has cheered up since she saw the light of day.'

Never have I seen such an appalling comment as the cheering up one. Keep your thoughts for us and leave him to realise as slowly as his small brain takes that yes, Capes does mean it. It's over and he can play poker every single night.

Hiding he used to be a nice guy, he really did, and tbh he still is to everyone but me - I'm not really sure why or what I did to make him hate me so much but there we go

Feck I did tell him he was minimising and he didn't know what I meant apparently - seriously this is a man that holds down a professional job

Love those quotes aye very appropriate!

Mix there are already debts, so he knows I know about, some in sure he doesn't - but none in my name so not my problem anymore

Matilda no I've decided I'm not going to engage with him any more at all, I know when he's going to pick the kids up (yes pick them up! He said he could get here before babies nap on Saturday morning and chill for a few hours till he wakes up no thanks!!) so there's nothing more to be said now is there

sky how the hell are you??

Oh typos galore! Not enough caffeine yet

Definitely not alright to come and 'chill' at yours. You're not bloody Starbucks.