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314dPiper · 23/08/2016 13:05

Here we go!

Let the wisdom commence
The universe is in our favour!

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DamnGood314 · 04/09/2016 11:53

I was supposed to be going out tonight but I'm going to cancel it to look over and practice saying out loud the responses to my interview questions.
I could do it now but I want to go for a 10k walk now and deliver a few birthday cards on my route. I have a friend having a boob reduction this week. I got this get well card of a teddy bear with its arm in a sling and I stuck two plasters over the 'boobs' of the bear. I'm laughing at my own joke here. I want to drop it in to her. A bike would be fabulous now. I could do the route in half the time. Do you burn up the same number of calories walking/cycling 10 k?
Alcohol free weekend. Tick
Bag of clothes Marie-Kondoed- Tick
Interview prep - tick.
40 minute Befit Go workout - Go

Still to do.
Try on different interview outfits and ponce about in front of the mirror.

DamnGood314 · 04/09/2016 12:38

Just realised I said his name Shock
Sorry.

DamnGood314 · 04/09/2016 13:37

About to go out for a 10k walk now, with a few pit stops. I notice that MSG has changed his intention to 'looking to date but nothing serious' so that makes me feel vindicated. It was he not I who misrepresented from the get go. He just over looked that because he wanted a few shags before he faced up to that.

I logged out before I searched his name obviously.

WavingNotDrowning · 04/09/2016 13:58

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DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 11:24

Quickest interview ever :-/

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HandyWoman · 05/09/2016 11:52

Mmm sorry to hear that 314 - am presuming you don't have a good feeling about it. All good practice though..

Back to school tomorrow for my two. Urgh..

to everyone, good to 'see' ocelot on good form! It's fab.

Am back from delightful weekend away, camping, long walks and laughs with The Twixy one! Can't stop swooning about the guy!! Just. Lovely..

waving how irritating that MTG keeps popping up where he isn't wanted. Keep getting rid. Good for you for getting stuck into cycling and stuff..

Hate the 'back to school' feeling. Gotta go and do a proper supermarket shop now.
Yuck.

DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 13:03

not sure.........
they didn't ask me much. only about 7 questions. I had an answer for everything and I didn't feel exposed. But ............ it was so quick. I hope it wasn't quick because they just decided 'no' in the first minute.

oh well, who knows. Back to Koko-ing. More applications etc...

DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 13:05

Glad you had a lovely weekend camping Handy!
And yes, it's good to see Ocelot in such a happy place!

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ocelot7 · 05/09/2016 15:19

Aw.... Thanks for all yr good thoughts :)
I am living proof how things can turn right around (while not counting chickens)
And I might have rejected CB for being a bit unexciting early on Waving... but kindness is the best virtue for a man :)

HandyWoman · 05/09/2016 15:29

Agree with that, ocelot, kindness is absolutely the best and probably the most important attribute in a man. From that foundation a great relationship can be achieved, problems overcome yada yada..

Charm, excitement and overt declarations of love - not so much. Have outgrown those!!

There needs to an element of fun though, I think..

Also off to dentist. Drab reality is seeping in..

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DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 17:33

What happens to men when they go on holiday!?!!?

I want kindness too. I want to be adored by somebody who has got to know me. Not by somebody who hasn't got to know me yet. Cos I'm worthy of it:-p and it is ridiculous that these fools men rush in and see a blank canvas that they can project any fantasy on to and then later when they have got to know me a bit, they decide they like me less. That's ridiculous. That sounds arrogant but with women, colleagues, neighbours, the postman, lol, it is the OTHER way around.

NO wonder I'm focusing on sorting my own life out.

DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 17:35

ps, I am feeling positive though. The 8 hour hypnosis sessions are doing me the world of good. I feel OK. Even MSG taught me a lesson.

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DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 18:55

I'll switch between the two because I need to be motivated to job hunt but to stay positive if I hear nothing back.

DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 19:04

Thanks Scarf. I was precisely six minutes early, don't like to give them a problem by arriving too early. I gave firm handshakes, looked them in the eye etc....

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DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 19:50

I've hidden my profiles but it'd make no difference if they weren't hidden. Nobody messages me out of the blue. I only get messages when I come back to life.

Does he live near you ?

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DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 20:20

Lol. I should try and lose a few more pounds and sit on the beach in October, in my penney's bikini. Make some effort!

my BMI 23 atm, I need to get it back down to 22 again.

DamnGood314 · 05/09/2016 20:21

I could even ask passers by to take the photo. Tell them it's for my pof profile, I'm single I could tell them.