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[314dPiper]

Here we go!


Let the wisdom commence
The universe is in our favour!

[TheVirginQueen]

It is but .... if the cap kind of fits :-/

I think that my personal growth is only edging towards real now. the whole time I was single and didn't date, I thought I was fine, invincible, without any issues at all! Dating has made me realise that's not the case. Job-hunting and learning to drive made me realise I was not a risk-taker. Being a people-pleaser but not being a risk-taker, that is a survive not thrive kind of gear.

[TheVirginQueen]

That is a great clip. I can relate to so much of that.

[ocelot7]

I've just worked out who VQ is! I think - previously pastry-based morsel?

Re crying in therapy session - I did lots of that when I had counsellng! Most weeks...I remember being glad of the darkness when I left to walk across the city as I look frightful - think bug-eyed fish. Luckily it got less as the days lengthened! It took me a while to feel its catharsis. ...

[TheVirginQueen]

I like leo gura. He gives me a peg to hang recent realisations on.

[TheVirginQueen]

Well holy God Miley I have a man's number in my phone. The old fashioned way. Although, admitting having gone on online dates helped I think.
Good night folks. Got to get some beauty sleep. I really wish I could leave contacting him a week til I'd got to grips with new job but that would be a bit too long.

[TheVirginQueen]

Blimey. I'm up, and I got away with mixing g&t the first half of the night then switching to lager and finishing off with a sambucca. Survived it.
Do you mind if I send the details in a PM? This is just a bit toooooooo identifying. Walking back in to the over share territory immediately, again.

[TheVirginQueen]

Well. I wish it was what it sounds like.

I need to crank up the signals in real life too.

:D

[HandyWoman]

New job new iron?

Ooh yey

[HandyWoman]

That sounds really good, dancing

How ya doing, Scarf it sounds to me like you just need a bit more confidence about what you want instead of focusing on him? Maybe? Imagine he's completely at your disposal - what do you want??

VQ what's the deal with job and iron? Update please!

Me and Twix - totally loved up

[AnnaChronism]

I think loved up is excellent handy but that's because I am too

I'm still lurking here even though I don't post much, I'm wishing everyone the best.

[ocelot7]

I know VQ survived her first day in the new job just fine & was planning to message the RL man...

I am spending a lot of time with Cb but wouldn't say I'm loved up... bit concerned we seemed to have skipped a stage(?) & gone straight to staying in drinking wine & eating cheese...but its got to stop cos its getting autumnal & I can't get into my jeans

[TheVirginQueen]

Hi all, Saturday at last! omg, there should be more Saturdays. so, if a date gets arranged (and I think it will!) we only made contact properly eventually yesterday, I will update you all. It was bad timing for both of us earlier in the week. I'm enjoying a lie in and a cup of tea in bed now.

[TheVirginQueen]

I'm not having counselling! Probably could do with some psychotherapy for a couple of things but not having it atm.
I have a date tonight. Not an internet person. Fixed up by somebody who says ''I know you'll get on!''. This should be interesting. Today is going to be insane though. Getting up now at 6.25, I am about to have my first shower of the day. Teacher's meeting at 8 am. But I need to be at work by 8.50 at the latest so I will stand up and leave at 8.20 whether the meeting is finished or not. Have to.

[HandyWoman]

Ooh VQ you've a crazy long day ahead of you..

But a date! Yippee!! Have fun!

[ocelot7]

Hope you have a lovely evening VQ and that yr mutual friend who knows you both is right :)
Meanwhile assume you are busy chilling/getting ready as I write...

[MyGastIsFlabbered]

So my budding relationship has imploded. Feel really sad even though it was me that ended it.