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what has your dp/dh asked you to do sexually that you have disliked or refused to do?

451 replies

juicychops · 30/01/2007 14:13

Just curious......

my dp want me to agree toa threesome with another woman

OP posts:
kittylette · 30/01/2007 14:32

nothing yet

nailpolish · 30/01/2007 14:32

lol @ wurly
shouting

wurlywurly · 30/01/2007 14:32

sorry cloudhopper will not divulge any more information.

itsmeNDP · 30/01/2007 14:32

it depends on what you like, who the third party is etc. I can't suggest any hints and tips, it's a completely personal thing you do it how you like it. If you feel uncomfortable at any time then I do think you need to speak up.

In fact that would be my only 'rule', if either your DP/DH or you realise at any point in proceedings that it is not what you want, not what you expected then you both need to agree to put a stop to it there and then.

Cloudhopper · 30/01/2007 14:33

No - don't do it. Fantasise if it turns you on, but unless you are very very liberated it will probably be a regret. In all honesty.

DetentionGrrrl · 30/01/2007 14:33

ooh, fantasic...reading or posting in them is optional!

monkeymonkeymoomoo · 30/01/2007 14:33

Juicy - make sure its not a close friend, you will ruin the friendship and always wonder if DH still fantasises about her. Secondly be explicit about what you are prepared and not prepared to do and thirdly use barrier protection!

wurlywurly · 30/01/2007 14:33

can you tell i'm very dominant in the bedroom!!

expatinscotland · 30/01/2007 14:33

i just ate my lunch, too.

UnquietDad · 30/01/2007 14:33

The M-F-F threesome would probably come out as top fantasy for most straight men. Closely followed by anal, I imagine. Not that I've ever read such a survey, but I imagine Maxim or Loaded or something has done one at some point.

CountessDracula · 30/01/2007 14:33

oh I quite like threesomes but not done one with dh (though we did proposition someone one night but she said no )

itsmeNDP · 30/01/2007 14:34

rofl CD

CountessDracula · 30/01/2007 14:35

yes
we were rather off our heads and found it hilarious!

monkeymonkeymoomoo · 30/01/2007 14:35

Wurly - I do tell him what I want but he's a bit shy and takes some persuading!

ludaloo · 30/01/2007 14:35

what is the fascination with anal??? (for men) I just can't see it!

mylittlestar · 30/01/2007 14:35

PMSL at some of the comments on this thread!!

Especially the 'pirate' ones - I wish I'd seen that thread!

DetentionGrrrl · 30/01/2007 14:35

i used to keep getting propositioned in a club by people asking to join in their threesome thing...i must have that kind of face

Never did it though. I only have room for one willy in my life, and that's DPs.

3rdTriMossTer · 30/01/2007 14:36

If you're not keen on anal just say, "sure, I'll do anal, what size dildo would you like me to use?"

Works a treat.

CountessDracula · 30/01/2007 14:36

oh detentiongrrl I hope it wasn't you

expatinscotland · 30/01/2007 14:36

To any man who suggested anal, I said I'd give it a go.

If he did first.

That always ended his little 'fantasy'.

And hte MFF threesome.

Again, sure, but only if we have the MMF threesome first.

ludaloo · 30/01/2007 14:37

mosster....I've tried that one...he was still up for it!!!!!

itsmeNDP · 30/01/2007 14:37

ludaloo - a number of reasons...

a) it's a tighter orifice than the vagina, therefore more sensation for him

b) it's a bit of a taboo

c) it's a typical porn thing

DetentionGrrrl · 30/01/2007 14:37

have you ever been to a club called 'The Zone'?! If so, sorry!

HappyDaddy · 30/01/2007 14:37

This all reminds me of "Sex lives of the Potato Men", where Johnny Vegas and another bloke are talking about cars while supposedly shagging a willing lady in a 3some. .

Reality is never as good as fantasy.

Ha Harrrr.

monkeymonkeymoomoo · 30/01/2007 14:37

LMAo @ 3TMT