Happy Daddy having a harmless flirt? We could do with more male input actually. He has quite a hard time of it. He does try to be a gentleman! Not easy on a thread like this!
Are we not just talking about sensation-seeking with a lot of this? Boredom? People who cannot get high on the finer things in life?
Surely there can be nothing better than full-blooded passionate sensual love-making/sex?
Wherever you draw the line on the two, surely when we allow the aesthetics of life to nurture the sexuality in a healthy way we can quickly see where the truth lies.
Males stuck with the Madonna-Whore or the titillation of secret fruits ? ? Immaturity? ? Lack of information/maladaptive experiences ? their problem.
It?s all hardly Bambi is it?
Sadly, however much we love somebody they can only be themselves sexually. The older people get ? the harder to change this. Sexual compatibility ? like other areas of compatibility ? is just one area that can break down a relationship. It takes a long time to know somebody fully. Not sure how long. Maybe quicker with some honest folk. Maybe ?Love at first sight? is about perceiving many things about a person.
A lot of people here have talked about things that they have done ? within relationships that they have left. These things can be deciders. Sometimes I think that women feel that they may have to compromise too much ? as if deciding whether to cook Chicken Tikka Masala for tea ? because he likes it and you are not that keen. Sexual inclinations run much deeper than that. They are a form of character expression. You should only express what is in your own character, or you will feel terribly lost and afraid.