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Onwards and Upwards!

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Hushabyemountain98 · 14/03/2016 09:33

Good morning. Welcome to my new thread. I hope that all my MN friends will join me and maybe a few new ones!xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 20/03/2016 19:52

I am sorry pizza that you are not feeling well.
Have you got a hot water bottle?
Do you think you have flu?
I hope you can get some sleep tonight . Maybe you will feel better in the morning.
I hope you do.
Take care of yourself xxx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 20/03/2016 20:04

Good Evening Kirk,

I am glad that your son is coming home from Uni for 2 weeks. it will be good for you to have his company. Will your daughter be at home too?
I know how you feel Kirk. I am hoping my sons will be home at some point over Easter.
xxx

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WTAFF · 20/03/2016 20:15

Don't worry about me Hush - I'll be fine. I probably am just tired as you say.

Thanks for your concern though - you're clearly a lovely caring lady. Have you had a nice day? Smile

Hushabyemountain98 · 20/03/2016 20:33

Thanks WTAFF. You have been kind and supportive to me. It works both ways.
I enjoyed cooking for my guests. They enjoyed their dinner. it was good to have the company.
Back on my own again now.
Watching the TV. Feel quite tired. I am sure you are after all your driving over the weekend.
Look after yourself. Flowersxxx

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PiscoSour66 · 20/03/2016 20:58

I lost the battle of the tech!
Hush if you enjoyed this afternoon maybe you might be able to invite someone else over? Just one or two people?

Chiconbelge · 20/03/2016 23:08

Hi Hush surely a CD player is not going to cost so very much that it doesn't count as "normal" - I guess those kind of rules are for buying yourself a diamond necklace or one of those enormous tellies? Good night all xx

Hushabyemountain98 · 20/03/2016 23:46

Hi Pisco.
Sorry you lost the battle of the tech!
I will think about who I can ask over for dinner next.
I am hoping that my boys will be here next weekend.
I seem to have fallen asleep during the 'Night Manager'.
I hope you get a good nights sleep.
Goodnight xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 20/03/2016 23:49

Thanks Chicon, I was hoping to get a diamond necklace after the CD Player!
No only joking!
I hope you have had a good Sunday?
Goodnight xx

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PiscoSour66 · 21/03/2016 00:10

Thank you Hush. Good night to you.
Good night all. Xxx

WTAFF · 21/03/2016 07:11

Morning Hush (and everyone). Today is the start of a new week (ok, so I know that yesterday was technically the start, but given that it was a bad day for me I'm discounting Sunday!)

I hope this week is more positive for us all. Do you have any exciting plans Hush?

Xx

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 07:44

Good Morning WTAFF.
I hope this week is more positive for all of us too.
No I am afraid I do not have any exciting plans!
Are you doing anything different or exciting?
I am going to try and get out more as staying in is not doing me any good.
Have a good day xx

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Kirk123 · 21/03/2016 07:51

Morning all , I was the same hush staying in all the time but I was healing in my own surroundings and then when I felt better I started going out ❤️ Do you all want to come on this date at 1pm ?? I have to go I know I need to dip my toe in the water 🙈 But I would rather stay in my nightie in my bedroom 🙈, 31 years since my last date , song for today I will survive for a change it is usually let it go ( whilst wearing my frozen blue dress ) only joking , I will feed back later xxx

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 08:07

Morning Kirk.
I think you have to do what feels right for you, when it feels right.
Will be thinking of you at 1pm. I hope it goes well.
Just stay safe.
Good luck xx

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PiscoSour66 · 21/03/2016 08:19

Good morning all. I hope everyone is well. Maybe the longer days just ahead of us will help to throw us out of our houses! A bit of warmth will be nice too.
kirk you so must wear your blue Frozen dress, maybe Hush might lend you her diamond necklace. Good luck, I'll be thinking of you too.

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 08:29

Good morning Pisco.
I hope you are okay today. Let's hope the weather warms up soon.
I can remember Easter holidays in years gone bye when the weather has been great. It is quite early this year though.
Kirk would be welcome to my diamond neclace!
Have a good day xx

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WTAFF · 21/03/2016 08:32

Good luck Kirk. Enjoy your lunch date! Remember- if he asks you to send him £3,000 he probably isn't looking for a relationship! Wink.

Seriously though, even if nothing comes of it, it's exper of being back in the dating game (so to speak). Who knows - he might be your perfect match. Your never know until you try.

Hush - I don't really have any exciting plans. I'm going to try and make the most of the decent weather this week though.

Xx

Kirk123 · 21/03/2016 08:55

You are all the best , this time last year I was distraught , crying all day , heartbroken ,off work , son laid next me crying all day too , the worst time of my life , I love Easter and I didn't even go to church 😢 , I would never of thought I would be divorced , looking forward to being 50 in May and I have my Easter tree up again 😀 Onwards and upwards is our only way ladies and we are slowly doing that together with dignity.

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 10:12

Hi WTAFF.
Good advice for Kirk.
I hope you are able to make the most of the good weather.
I have just walked the dogs. Had to come back and clean my old one up. Won't go into detail!
It is lovely out there.
Enjoy your day xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 10:14

Hi Kirk,

I am so glad that this year is so much better for you.
I am hoping that I will feel that way next year or maybe even before!
Onwards and Upwards and good luck for today.
xxx

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Timetosay58 · 21/03/2016 10:51

Morning all.Had night out Saturday.Collapsed.Stupid heart.Fine now.
Reason Im mentioning this.?
Life,our life is too short and we All deserve so much more than life gave us.
So,as Hush tittle states,Onward and Upwards.
We deserve peace of mind,happiness.
Hush,your H,is a total arse and did not deserve you.I believe in Karma.His day will come.
Kirk,You have a great lunch,Relax and enjoy it for what it is.But,we want to hear all about it!!!xx

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 11:30

Sorry to hear that you collapsed on Saturday night Timetosay58.
Please take care of yourself.
You are right we all deserve far better.
I believe in Karma too and what goes around comes around!
I hope you have a good day. Take care xx

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Kirk123 · 21/03/2016 17:01

I returned safely after a niceish 2 hrs , he seems to be very needy , never mentioned friends only his mum and work , has 3 kids he doesn't see all over 21 and he explained he had tried but they were busy ???? I realised I am enjoying my freedom and not having to answer to anyone ladies , I have just dumped him by text 🙈 Not dragging it out any longer ! Next lol xx

PiscoSour66 · 21/03/2016 17:08

Hi kirk, well it was an experience if nothing else. First date after 31 years and you're dumping them already! X

notonyurjellybellynelly · 21/03/2016 17:28

Kirk, Do you have a patio? Please God, you dont have a patio cos at this rate you'd be needing to borrow the next door neighbours as well!

I am a bit peeved we wont be needing new hats though!

Hushabyemountain98 · 21/03/2016 18:10

Hi Kirk,
I am glad that you went.
At least you gave it a go.
Better to be honest if he wasn't for you.
There will be someone out there to treat you as you
deserve to be treated, if you want him.
I hope you have a nice evening xxx

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