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Onwards and Upwards!

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Hushabyemountain98 · 14/03/2016 09:33

Good morning. Welcome to my new thread. I hope that all my MN friends will join me and maybe a few new ones!xx

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WTAFF · 30/03/2016 13:40

Hi Hush. How are you doing?

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Hushabyemountain98 · 30/03/2016 14:45

Hi WTAFF.
I am ok thank you.
I have had coffee with my sister and brother in law this morning. Off to the vet a bit later.
I really have the urge to e mail a certain person but I know that I shouldn't. I will write down how I feel instead.

How are you?
xx

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PiscoSour66 · 30/03/2016 14:51

Hello all. I'm still hoovering....

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Hushabyemountain98 · 30/03/2016 14:59

Well done Pisco. You are putting me to shame!xx

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PiscoSour66 · 30/03/2016 15:06

This is only once a year Grin

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Hushabyemountain98 · 30/03/2016 15:20

Thats okay then! Grinx

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WTAFF · 30/03/2016 19:07

Hi Hush. I'm all right thanks. Just been busy with work and squeezed in a swimming session so I'm tired.

No, you must not email a certain person. You are stronger than that!

louisatwo · 30/03/2016 21:51

Evening Hush & all.
Joining the chorus of 'don't email'. Write it but don't send it!!
House half cleaned but went out for lunch and prosecco with friends so all good intentions went winewards! Need Pisco to visit with the hoover Grin
Will try again tomorrow.
Sleep well Hush. You CAN do this. xxx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 30/03/2016 22:03

Hi WTAFF.
I am glad that you are alright.
Sounds asthough you have been busy.
Hope you enjoyed your swim.

No I am not going to e mail a certain person.
I have been out to dinner with a friend. We did dinner tonight instead of lunch tomorrow. I bought myself a bunch of rainbow tulips to cheer myself up.
Take care xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 30/03/2016 22:14

Good Evening Louisa,

I am not going to send him an email.

Glad you have cleaned half your house.
Good that you had lunch and prosecco with friends. Good to have a break and a chat.
Yes we could all keep Pisco busy!!
I have been out to dinner with a friend this evening. Which was really nice.
Bought myself a bunch of rainbow tulips on the way back.

Good luck with finishing the housework.
Sleep well Louisa.
xxx

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PiscoSour66 · 30/03/2016 23:47

I'm knackered!
Good night all x

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 07:09

I hope you slept well Pisco?xx

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PiscoSour66 · 31/03/2016 07:16

Good morning! Woke up early and mind instantly racing away. Not good.
Are you up to anything today? X

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 07:37

Good morning.
Sorry you woke up early with your mind racing.
I have nothing planned today apart from walking the dogs.
I need to get cracking with tidying up etc.
I had a disturbed night. Which was not good!
Do these feelings ever end?

What are you up to today?

Have a good day.

Xx

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PiscoSour66 · 31/03/2016 09:12

I hope those feelings end Hush, I really do. But it's just automatic, isn't it? You wake up at some ridiculous hour and instantly the brain goes into overdrive and that's it, you're wide awake. And then your head hurts from lack of sleep and you're in a constant fog. It's awful.
Beautiful day here. I'm going to make the kids do outside stuff. They are looking very pasty!

Kirk123 · 31/03/2016 09:49

The wake up feelings do stop after time , and then your dreams are full of them but at least you are asleep 💤

PiscoSour66 · 31/03/2016 10:01

It's been a long time now! And I'm worn out. I don't know which is worse, the invasion of your thoughts or the invasion of your dreams (nightmares!)
How you doing kirk?

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 10:45

It is automatic Pisco. Once your mind starts working that it!
I am tired.
I have walked the dogs in the sun. Still very wet under foot.
Glad you have nice weather too. I hope you manage to get your kids to do outside stuff! Get a bit of sun on their bones.
Have a good day xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 10:48

Good morning Kirk.
I hope the wake up feelings stop after time.
I want to dream about something else!
I hope you are having a good day?xx

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Kirk123 · 31/03/2016 11:22

Hi ladies just at occupational health for 1 hrs talking therapy and cognotive behaviour therapy ! So I am ok but still need help , my grieving for my lost life continues but I need help getting through this mud I keep wading through 😢

PiscoSour66 · 31/03/2016 11:31

Hang on in there kirk. I'm sure it will get better and better. Like you say, we've just got to wade through this bog first! X

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 11:37

Hi Kirk,
I really hope it helps you. All this wading makes you tired!xx

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PiscoSour66 · 31/03/2016 11:45

Since I need a pair of shoes for every occasion I'm going to buy us all these

Onwards and Upwards!
pizzaeatingmonkey · 31/03/2016 12:25

Morning all,
not a lot to say other than I seem to coping very well again at the moment. I managed to get a parking ticket yesterday and it didn't bother me a bit ( I paid but didn't display...ticket fell on the floor).
Did Aldi shopping wearing new make up, (foundation felt very velvety putting it on) and treated myself to a new top in White Stuff (£10, would have been rude not to) and a new scarf in Accessorize (£16). Seeing as I haven't had an income since beginning of January, it is very naughty but hey, I feel so much better!
Off to potter in the garden now.
Love to all xx

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Hushabyemountain98 · 31/03/2016 16:26

Very sexy Pisco xx

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