Do you know if you're having bad sex?

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Odd conversation with someone the other day... if all you've ever had is bad sex or sex with one person - do you know its bad? Or do you only realise when you get the good stuff?

I think that you know when it has been good if you feel like a goddess afterwards and your man feels like king of the world. Wandering around for hours afterwards with a stupid grin on your face is also a tell tale sign.

I had quite a few partners before dh and he had one (bonkers) girlfriend. I think I would happily have gone without at least half of my partners if I had known in advance how they were in bed. I definately thought "OMG This is how it is supposed to be done" when I found dh. It may be just about finding someone you click with.

I know the wife of one of my exs and I can't help but feel sorry for her having to endure his clammy pawing and agonising nipple biting fetish .

Quootie, I'm sure you've mentioned that you've only done missionary before. Me thinks you're itching for some experimentation... good luck with it, you'll have the most fun.

Sex while very drunk is hopeless, usually, sex while tipsy is great. Especially if the alcohol is being poured over one another.

A bit early, I know, but you lot started it.

Rape fantasies are qualitivly different from rape experiences Xenia

oh no,it's NEVER too early

Thanks for the explanation MT

Someone needs to post a link again to the site that showed the inner workings of the female vagina and how orgasm can be encouraged.

Will have a look for it.

Kitty, when i mention it it's too early, believe me!

I find being on top helps

So do I MT.

HappyDaddy - lol at tipsy sex with alcohol poured on! I was going to post that tipsy sex was good too but thought I must be in the minority. It's got to be done within the first 2-3 hours of drinking in my experience, anything beyond that is just too numb

MT, of course I realise that. I didn't mean to suggest otherwise.

2-3 hours after drinking and i'm asleep!

quootie..there is alot of fun out there, get orf your back and discover..its one of the most restrictive ways and only suitable when standing
happydaddy..cant take your post seriously our cat is named tipsy

I'm amazed you may take any of my posts seriously!

take them as i find them..

with a pinch of salt then

i like being quite honest on here actually but giving details like cats name, does make me think about stuff ..
good sex now, that was this morning, mornings are good

Same here Suzy.

About the personal details, not the morning sex! lol

morning sex..what dont cha like it?
how old is your baby?

Oh come on, I love all sex anytime, you must realise that!

Dd is 2.5, hence no morning sex but, luckily, plenty of evening sex.

yes, but isn't afternoon holiday sex just the best ever. Having a 4 year old and an 8 month old I cannot imagine ever getting the opportunity for that, but I remember it fondly

ds is 2.9 but still in cot if needed throw him a custard cream and hey presto 15 minutes..
he will be going to bed soon but still gate on room, always thinking, always thinking..
find being sahm gave me more energy in way for my old hobby..worry that i'll wear him out so does he i think...

meant mr.creamcheese, of course, wearing him out!

hockeyivy..i agree, like it anytime there is some time..we are on no daytime baby naps anymore so yes, that is a pipe dream for me too at the moment...

mmmm sex. right now even bad sex would do.

misdee no, no it wont do