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Do you know if you're having bad sex?

550 replies

FLAMEinEckItsYuleAgain · 30/12/2006 14:52

Odd conversation with someone the other day... if all you've ever had is bad sex or sex with one person - do you know its bad? Or do you only realise when you get the good stuff?

OP posts:
HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 13:49

I always choose to orgasm. I don't always choose when, though.

Papillon · 02/01/2007 13:51

That's cos your male hd

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 13:52

Am I? I wasn't sure...

CatherineEarnshaw · 02/01/2007 13:53

or boy!

Papillon · 02/01/2007 13:56

Does that mean in your mind you are not sure? Are you sometimes otherwise?

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 13:57

Unfortunately, I was only joking.

Papillon · 02/01/2007 14:00

oh ok, just checking

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 14:20

I just checked, too.

Papillon · 02/01/2007 14:29

For 20 minutes!

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 14:33

I was being thorough.

kittyinwaiting · 02/01/2007 15:07

Bloody hell, wish my DP could be spontaneous. Actually I think he doesn't actually like or want sex atall unless he doesn't have to do anything but lie back and think of cricket or something equally thrilling. I'm feeling miserable now.

suzycreamcheese · 02/01/2007 15:11

kittyinwaiting...does he need iron tablets does he have low energy levels?
take control go get some..

happydaddy - are you still on that website, thought i saw you there

lazyanna · 02/01/2007 15:13

will happily swap DH with yours kitty

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 15:13

suzy, what website? you're scaring me!

kitty, bring another bloke home, that'll wake dh up!

suzycreamcheese · 02/01/2007 15:20

maybe thats what these men need - carkeys in a bowl for you two ladies ?

you know, that website, i was on it too happydaddy always lots to learn dont cha agree?

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 15:21

suzy, you're a nutter.

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 15:27

But don't let that stop you telling me this website address...

kittyinwaiting · 02/01/2007 15:37

Suzy, he has ME and all sorts od associated probs . However, he's now much more lacklustre than he was say 5 years ago. Maybe all men lose the urge as they get older .

Lazyanna, what's your dp like then is he sex mad or something? Sorry, you don't have to answer that I'm just intrigued

lazyanna · 02/01/2007 15:42

Probably not sex mad, depending on your definition, but we do disagree about it

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 15:46

lazyanna - like this? DH - come on baby, it's all quiet, let's boogie!.

You - Let me finish the dishes first, eh?

lazyanna · 02/01/2007 15:48

Well, I'd rather he did the dishes, tbh

kittyinwaiting · 02/01/2007 15:49

I guess it's always a tricky one when sex drives don't match. But for me having decent sex is so much more than just about a bonk. It makes me feel feminine, womanly, desirable and somehow a more complete person.

HappyDaddy · 02/01/2007 15:57

There you go, he does the dishes and you can entertain yourself...

...by watching Corrie.

FioFio · 02/01/2007 15:57

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 02/01/2007 16:17

ROFL Fio