Step inside, it's the Dating Thread 94

[tanyadm]

We don't have get through these at speed....

The Rules

1. The first rule about the dating thread is you don't talk about it with people you're dating.
2. Develop a thick skin
3. Do no invest emotionally too soon
4. It's all BS until it actually happens
5. Trust your gut instinct
6. People vanishing, lying & being generally weird is not your fault
7. You are the prize - they should be trying to impress you
8. If it's not fun- stop
9. Loo update is mandatory

10. No dating the thread 11. Read Why Men Love Bitches.

Teacher has been quiet today I know he's with his daughter but my imagination goes into overdrive and needy me starts thinking all sorts. Had a text saying he'll phone me tonight why can't I just remember he's busy and not losing interest.

Here goes...

I haven't posted in a little while as I haven't been able to date for a few weeks, but I've dipped my toe back in this week and I started messaging mr clean. We've been messaging since Tuesday and already he's started calling me darling?! We've not met, or even arranged to meet yet! So I'm not sure how I feel about this, he's already texted me twice today and I've not answered yet just because I'm really not sure what to think
I also joined Okcupid last night, so I shall see how that is in my area? Obviously no dates lined up for me yet, but some very 'interesting' messages in my inbox

The activity on this thread is brilliant though!

handy Absolutely sit on your hands! Do not text! Repeat, do not text! oh, and fantastic news about the date, go you!

314 I've been in a similar situation, and it took me a lot longer, and a lot more heartache, so well done you for cutting loose.

tanya Good luck!!!

Waves What a pain! When do you next get to see him?

chatty Easier said than done I know, but try to relax, like you said, he's busy. Look forward to his call tonight.

tanya talk to us!!!!

Hello Tea welcome hmm I'd be put off by being called 'darling' during the initial texting. Doesn't seem quite right to me. But it's how you feel that's what counts.

I wonder if Twiggy is still on her lunch date, tee hee....

Waving how annoying to be thwarted by a plumbing situation!

314 well done with Bear. Good on you. Let the H situation unfold if you can.

Bit more pottering to do and book the babysitter before settling in for tanya bus update - I so hope he lives up to his gorgeous messaging self - fingers crossed...

Think tanya is only 30mins into her date, Sassy She's coming back on 22:45h bus home latest knows a bit too much about tanyadm's movements

Oops. Misunderstood. Here goes is for the date. I thought you were getting ready to tell us what had happened. My bad

waving that is annoying re soho. Has he left it open re catching up again?

handy don't message IMO.

Omg. Already best date ever. He's amazing. Feels like I have known him for ages. Consider this your loo update:

Wow, that's BRILLIANT

Yay Tanya
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I really want to message MrCS if only to ask him what the fuck happened. Bad idea right?

Whoop whoop!!!!!

Get in tanya!! That is bloody brilliant!

That's a bad idea Gast , yes

tanyadm YESSSSSSSS that's flipping brilliant!!!!

Whoop whoop, fantastic news tanya !!

"toosassy* 6'5" omg. What height are you?

Mr Tiles sounds hopeful handy, and definitely sit in your hands re contacting Mr City.

So, Mr Blond is definitely a possibility. Can't put my finger on why - he's not the most gorgrous or fit man, got fair share of baggage, has a slightly dodgy accent BUT there is something there that I've not felt for ages. He really seems to get me. Same humour, same quirky habits and there's an unusual phrase that I say often and he said it this afternoon in bed.

On the DTD side I think he might be a little more, conservative, shall we say, so I think he'll need some encouragement. Get the impression he wants to show he can treat me like a lady I'm quite happy being down and dirty although he did manage to lift me onto the kitchen work surface at one stage and that was pretty hot .

He wants a relationship, actually used that word!

In other news WMLB is so true - now I'm not contacting Coffee at all he's texting me all the time asking when he can see me.

Wonder how tanya is getting on .

Obviously took me far too long to write that post, just updated and WOOHOO tanya, so happy for you!

Twiggy still laughing at lifted me up on kitchen worktop sounds like you are having a great time! Go you! Oh and hands up here from another EA marriage of 10 years, so I also know how you deserve to be having a great time right now!

gast don't message. I highly recommend getting the app Drunkdialno. You can put the contact in the app for up to 48 hours. And it doesn't let you ring/ text them!

waving well roll on Tuesday. Must be frustrating but at least you know when you're next seeing him.

314 Im 5"9' but I love my heels and in them I hit 6ft/ 6ft 1. So 6"5' is HEAVEN! Lunch is confirmed and given he works round the corner from me it's perfect as it doesn't eat into vital evening time which I struggle with.

twiggy how exciting!!! How do you feel about that? Do you want a relationship with him?

Cannot wait to hear more from tanya

I think I do actually.

He works away from home for nine days then back for five, which sounds perfect. Time for me and DDs, then time with him. Not rushing anything though, heeding the warning waving gave me about Solo starting all keen and enthusiastic then being hard work.

Cannot wait for the update from tanya

Sassy re drunkdialno I CANNOT believe there's an app for that!!!

Eek so looking forward to hearing another update from tanyadm

I so need that app! I also need sleep but I am tentatively waiting for Tanya