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Total shock

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Iseeall · 26/09/2015 13:28

Just found evidence of the other woman. In total shock. Been together 25 years,k new something was wrong but still its a shock.
His business takes him away sometimes and he has just returned, I found her boarding card in his man bag as i was tidying up.
Shall I facebook her a message asking if she had a lovely holiday and enjoys breaking up a family.
help me.

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mulranna · 28/09/2015 21:20

He likes to put on the 'gentleman' act . So any scandal would horrify him, work wise iyswim.

I would therefore insinuate that one of his best clients tipped you off.....

Ohgodohgodohgodohgod · 28/09/2015 21:21

Which one's the fit one in the Rolling Stones?

Oh wait there isn't one.
OP - sod him.

Cherrybakewells1 · 28/09/2015 21:23

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Ohgodohgodohgodohgod · 28/09/2015 21:24

Cherry Grin

Iseeall · 28/09/2015 21:26

Not the strolling bones, I think they might be a successful tribute band.
Not Mick Jagger, one of the other ones, someone who wears tight jeans

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Iseeall · 28/09/2015 21:28

Dick Swagger, I might try and use that one.

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mulranna · 28/09/2015 21:29

Not Rod Stewart? Queen??

mulranna · 28/09/2015 21:32

Status Quo?

TwoTonTessie · 28/09/2015 21:33

Give him a fat lip then he can be Mick!

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imjustahead · 28/09/2015 21:34

op, just cautionary, be careful of too much identifying info whilst you hold those (actual) cards.x

ScrambledSmegs · 28/09/2015 21:34

Ronnie Wood?

Actually they all make me boak so that's not saying much.

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Iseeall · 28/09/2015 21:39

yes I am conscious of giving to many details away.
I don't think I can be identified in rl.
I will be going to bed soon,on my own, Dick Swagger is already asleep on the settee.

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suzannecaravan · 28/09/2015 21:41

if she's his groupie then there may have been some public displays of affection between them at gigs?

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suzannecaravan · 28/09/2015 21:43

I will be going to bed soon,on my own, Dick Swagger is already asleep on the settee

he ought to be way too stressed at this explosion in his private life to just fall asleep like that....didnt he?

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Blossomflowers · 28/09/2015 21:53

Isee just read the whole thread. Think you are awesome, Dick Swagger, well he is just a dick actually. You are doing very well. I am your age btw, life begins at 50.

tribpot · 28/09/2015 21:54

I think he's desperate to know how you found out (although not, it would appear, desperate enough to remain conscious past 9:30 Hmm) because that will give him some clues about what you've found out. I think there are a number of possibilities and he doesn't know which one you've got.

If he was a Jagger tribute (I know he isn't) his groupie should be a Bianca Jagger or Jerry Hall tribute groupie. Bet she isn't.

Iseeall · 28/09/2015 22:01

Suzanne I wonder if have a point about them being seen together at a gig. I'm convinced he thinks it is a band members wife who tipped me off. I believe one wife in particular would take a very dim view.
I don't get to all the gigs, for various reasons

I imagine I've not heard the end of it for some reason.

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Ohgodohgodohgodohgod · 28/09/2015 22:04

He's going to come out of this looking like a silly idiot and she's going to be seriously judged by people. They have only themselves to blame. You will come out of this stronger and with people's support. No one likes a cheat. Flowers

springydaffs · 28/09/2015 22:04

Hope it's a crap sofa and he does his back in

Just as an aside, abusive types are always hugely concerned about their public persona. Just saying.

Well that's shot to pieces now isn't it. All his doing. What a sordid cliché Sad

Ohgodohgodohgodohgod · 28/09/2015 22:05

Oh and also OP- clear your phone history because he might go snooping on you to try and establish what you know. Get rid of this thread from your history.

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