okay, so dh and I were having sex last night and .....

[abitweird]

he said 'whatever you are doing please stop' (it wasn't anything weird!) so i asked him if it hurt and he said no that it was 'heaven' but I had to stop so i stopped and then he wanted me to do it again so i did and he kept telling me to stop and in the end I gave up. He just kept saying it was good but he couldnt handle it [confused emoticon]. I am now really confused, surely if something is good it is good and you want it to continue no? This is probably a really stupid question but it was bothering me. I am not a troll so no trip trapping! Nor am I some kind of journo!

yours
namechanger

incidentally it is not

expat

its pretty obvious who you are from the syntax of your posts though

I'm surprised there haven't been people using "notUCM" or similar as their name changes for delicate subjects ...

lol expat! I am not sure I would do that after he told me of a girl who did that to him once He is ridiculously prudish!

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I thought she was pegging him or rimming him, one or the other.

As for what was really going on, hell yes! That's a good one for getting them all revved up.

That and a mindblowingly good (pardon the pun) blowjob.

I have tried to alter that though twiglett (i think)!

rimming = licking in and around the anus

what is pegging?

Sings, 'She's a very kinky girl . . . The kind you don't bring home to mutha . . .'

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Rimming, is the art of snogging the chocolate starfish.. (im incidently not a fan)

pegging is a new word to me, but I've looked it up - more anal play. A woman penetrating a man with a strap-on.

Ah, it's a new term from 2001, makes sense, there wasn't a word for it before.

if only it tasted like chocolate....

darn.. was beaten to it.. and i thought i putt it so delicately too..

You can peg a bloke w/a butt plug, too.

Sweet of Dan Savage to try to get a name for it, particularly as it's a practice he's personally unlikely to experience .

Hmm, wikipedia thinks it's strictly strap-on, not butt plugs, hand-held dildos, or root vegetables.

have to admit, abitwierd, that if it did, id be more tempted

me too FF!

lol at root vegetables!

are organic better?

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(I feel obliged in my Sex Doctor role, to advise that it's not generally a good idea to put root veg up people's bottoms. You can lose things up there, seriously, the bottom isn't like a vagina, things really do get lost and then you end up in the emergency room. It's not good. Butt plugs have a wide flat base for a very good reason.)