okay, so dh and I were having sex last night and .....

[abitweird]

he said 'whatever you are doing please stop' (it wasn't anything weird!) so i asked him if it hurt and he said no that it was 'heaven' but I had to stop so i stopped and then he wanted me to do it again so i did and he kept telling me to stop and in the end I gave up. He just kept saying it was good but he couldnt handle it [confused emoticon]. I am now really confused, surely if something is good it is good and you want it to continue no? This is probably a really stupid question but it was bothering me. I am not a troll so no trip trapping! Nor am I some kind of journo!

yours
namechanger

kind of fairy.

here goes
I was straddling him and there had been a lot of foreplay so I was ahem rather wet and i was kind of thrusting on top of him so that his penis was kind of sliding up and down between my er lips but not penetrating my vagina. It was really good for me too because it was rubbing the clitoris. I think that is why I didnt want to keep stopping

Glad I'm not alone in this...

LOL ndp

just go with it!

oh FFS WHAT WERE YOU DOING?

Do tell! Pretty please

DP and I have a rare night on our own tonight...

x-post .. oh ok

that's actually far more 'normal' than I was expecting it to be

Naily - I find it distracts me from orgasm, rather than encouraging it.

told you it wasnt weird! We are just really boring normally!

ndp - so you just stop? then what?

actually, you dont have to answer that

thanks for explaining my imagination was running wild - thats MUCH more normal that I expected
[leaves looking disappointed]

abitwierd - htats not boring at all

hahahahaha too right I don't have to answer

rofl

maybe it is me who is weird!

i think you should definitely try it again tonight and then see what happens

lol @ naily

Your not weird, it doesn't matter if its normal, it was intimate and so a bit odd talking about it.
You were making a good effort and it worked, be proud of your dick teasing talent.

I am ashamed of my boring sexual exploits now! Any tips?

lol ff!

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i told you

its not boring

?

im not bieng sarcastic if you think that i am?

no no no

how can something you are both really enjoying be boring?????