okay, so dh and I were having sex last night and .....

[abitweird]

he said 'whatever you are doing please stop' (it wasn't anything weird!) so i asked him if it hurt and he said no that it was 'heaven' but I had to stop so i stopped and then he wanted me to do it again so i did and he kept telling me to stop and in the end I gave up. He just kept saying it was good but he couldnt handle it [confused emoticon]. I am now really confused, surely if something is good it is good and you want it to continue no? This is probably a really stupid question but it was bothering me. I am not a troll so no trip trapping! Nor am I some kind of journo!

yours
namechanger

stick a finger up his arse

arf

It's certainly not weird!

There's probably a bit more friction doing that, compared to intercourse, iyswim, hence him finding it overwhelming. No doubt the fact you were enjoying it so much made it more overwhemling, too ...

NP thank you (am so bloody paranoid!)

NDP should I warn him first?

no warning

or he will tense up

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you may well have to peel him off the ceiling if you don't

NQC you are so logical and clued up as per usual

If you do plan to carry out my masterplan then just have a tentative gentle prod around there first, he will either shuffle away or he will encourage you. Prob best not to blurt out 'do you want me to fettle your hole', it may kill the moment

sounds like you dont need help from us nosy lot, probably just the thing you needed to spice it up all by yourself, now you know you can be TOO good for him!

yes politely asking first is not really a turn on

and make sure he does it back

lol at you lot and at 'fettle your hole' I bet that won't make quote of the week

naily, you are shameless

Off to get DD, should have left 5 mins ago

NDP, my compy moniter thanks you for its shower of tea..

I'd certainly say that gentle noodling around the area is more, ahem, polite than just ramming a few digits in ...

promise me you will od it again tonight!

I hope no-one guesses who i am now

I reckon he was going to orgasm but didn't want to 'too soon' IYSWIM. Happens to us all the time

hope that didnt come across wrong

i just think 2nd time round is better while stil fresh in the mind

gosh yes we still have to guess who you are

Oh, no, we can already all tell who you are, we're just being polite by not saying as much.

is that you, UCM?

haha twig - I was wondering who would say that!

And here I was thinking you'd been rimming him.