Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Do you have a fetish?

300 replies

NameChangeSoStrange · 08/04/2015 01:43

NC'd as both mother and a close female friend know my MN name and quite frankly don't fancy them reading this (or knowing it is me when they read this at any rate).

I was wondering if any MNetters have any fetishes?

If you don't want to say what it is that's fine just curious how many people have a specific niche - is it as common as a phobia (the opposite presumably) or is it a little more rare?

I find them fascinating because I'm curious if there is normally a specific cause for a fetish and would be interested to see what posters post on here.

I would say my fetishes or more aptly for myself, turn on's is a little bit of dominance (the other person) but not to the extent of being abusive/nasty. I also like the thought of more than one man at a time (though in reality I'd hate this, so no idea why my mind likes it).

I know it's a very nosy question but as we are all anonymous I thought I'd see what others say.

MNHQ feel free to delete away if a fair few are offended.
Feel free not to answer if you really don't feel comfortable nobody will make you.

Thanks for engaging if you do answer :)

~NiC~

OP posts:
wonderingsoul · 08/04/2015 18:08

my oh has a foot fetish.

I hate my feet being looked at or touched... and it took a while for him to tell me.
But in a bid to please him I got a pedicure and he loved it. I quite like him kissing on them now, I love how all I have to do is rub my foot on his leg and hes hard instantly, iv also been opened up to the joy of foot rubs. I think I quite like the 'power' It gives to, something so simple and easy gets him excited.

We're still exploring his fetish, next up is a foot wank.. I want to do it but I think id feel silly doing it.

then there's the plus of shoes.... he likes shoes to..which means I get lovely fuck me shoes.. which is something I love....

so iv gone from hating my feet to loving the fact that my oh has a foot fetish... it still surrpises me.

wonderingsoul · 08/04/2015 18:10

it also makes playing footsy under the table in a resterant more fun

Heckler · 08/04/2015 18:36

When he wears his y fronts with the loose elastic.

LosingTheWillToSkate · 08/04/2015 18:47

Christ. I'm gonna sound like a total weirdo now!

I love pegging, as does my dude. We're both into tgirls too, which fits with the pegging I guess. I like watersports, nothing turns me on more than watching him lick his cum off of my tits and then snowballing me. I'm into having my neck restricted, only really light bdsm as the heavier stuff does nothing for me at all. I love a bit of daddy role play, love cuckolding, love very rough sex followed by tenderness.
Think that'll do for now!

mrscynical · 08/04/2015 18:51

Try babes-n-horny.com for strap ons. They are the best!

Back to the OP - yes I do and it's leather. Especially leather gloves. Giving a hand job whilst wearing leather gloves is fab.

Latex is ok but leather is best.

ManAliveThisThingsFantastic · 08/04/2015 19:43

There is a website called Fetlife where likeminded people meet to share experiences and arrange meetups.

wonderingsoul · 08/04/2015 19:49

thinking about this from my side.

. I like my hair pulled, bit of ass fun whilst being fucked. I like it rough.
I also like pain
I burnt myself once on the arm.. during sex he had grabbed it by accident, it stung like a mofo but it was also really nice to.. the mixture of real pain and pleasure so...i love it. you have to be with some onw you reallu trust

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 19:51

Well this thread escalated quickly.

wonderingsoul · 08/04/2015 19:54

I have to say.. the burning of my arm was pure accident before the sex...

I suddenly read it as I had purposely done it During... nope lol.

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 19:55

I have lost the power to type anything intelligible

EquinoxEclipse · 08/04/2015 20:03

This thread is awesome Grin

ALaughAMinute · 08/04/2015 20:13

I like rough sex, hair pulling, dressing up and sex in public places. I also like risky sex. I once had sex with a colleague in the office when the MD was next door! Shock

Nice thread! Grin

TokenGinger · 08/04/2015 20:15

A cold willy is nice. Like, flop it in the sink under cold water, and go. That's good.

mrsdavidbowie · 08/04/2015 20:16

I'd like a night out with some of you. Grin

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 20:17

you ladeez into the rough sex, do you get lots of thrush and/or cystitis ?

TokenGinger · 08/04/2015 20:19

Nope, no thrush or cystitis here.

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 20:19

I'd be too busy rubbing on the Canestan/necking the Flagyl/inserting the yogurt/supping the cranberry juice to have too much regular "rough" sex Grin

Mind you, my membranes have probably had a lot of wear and tear over the years decades ...

wonderingsoul · 08/04/2015 20:27

an ex used to like being peed on... I could never understand that one.

nope no thrush or soreness.. though after a couple of all nighters iv had to shut down shop for a few days as it awkward to walk.

ALaughAMinute · 08/04/2015 20:37

For anybody who gets thrush I would recommend Total Candida Defence - you get them off Amazon. I started taking them a year ago and haven't had thrush since. They are absolutely bloody brilliant!

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 20:43

what exactly is it ?

ALaughAMinute · 08/04/2015 20:55

It's a capsule that you take every day until your symptoms disappear. I took three a day for the first month and now I just take one a day and it works a treat! No more thrush for me which means I can have as much rough sex as I want! Grin

Shame I've got no one to have sex with at the moment but that's another story.

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:24

what does it consist of ?

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:27

Have googled it, thanks. But no thanks Smile

WildBillfemale · 08/04/2015 21:34

What on earth is snowballing?!

handfulofcottonbuds · 08/04/2015 21:44

AF - are you looking for an education?

I once had a man send me a video of him licking a dirty flip flop Confused