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Do you have a fetish?

300 replies

NameChangeSoStrange · 08/04/2015 01:43

NC'd as both mother and a close female friend know my MN name and quite frankly don't fancy them reading this (or knowing it is me when they read this at any rate).

I was wondering if any MNetters have any fetishes?

If you don't want to say what it is that's fine just curious how many people have a specific niche - is it as common as a phobia (the opposite presumably) or is it a little more rare?

I find them fascinating because I'm curious if there is normally a specific cause for a fetish and would be interested to see what posters post on here.

I would say my fetishes or more aptly for myself, turn on's is a little bit of dominance (the other person) but not to the extent of being abusive/nasty. I also like the thought of more than one man at a time (though in reality I'd hate this, so no idea why my mind likes it).

I know it's a very nosy question but as we are all anonymous I thought I'd see what others say.

MNHQ feel free to delete away if a fair few are offended.
Feel free not to answer if you really don't feel comfortable nobody will make you.

Thanks for engaging if you do answer :)

~NiC~

OP posts:
CatsCantTwerk · 08/04/2015 13:01

I used to sell fetish/bondage wear and Pony play items (along with straight jackets) were my best sellers!

Quenelle · 08/04/2015 13:04

Do those who don't have special shoes just use coconut halves?

TokenGinger · 08/04/2015 13:05

Ashtray your husband would save me hours!! Washing an afro is hard work on the arms. I'd happily give DP a blowjob in exchange for him washing my hair. That sounds like heaven.

Concordial · 08/04/2015 13:08

Mr Tickle arms.... coconut halves.....

I'm in fucking tears here Grin

jd56 · 08/04/2015 13:09

It's a bit of a cliche now because of 50 shades, but I do have a range of fetishes within the BDSM field , all as the sub partner! I am only submissive when it comes to sex though. I guess I always had fantasies with regard to being dominated by a rough, well endowed man with stamina. The problem was that the man I married had none of those attributes. Luckily he is a very loving, giving, laid back and understanding man!Wink

ashtrayheart · 08/04/2015 13:14

Tokenginger maybe I could pimp him out Grin
Coconut halves haha I've got the giggles now

lunalelle · 08/04/2015 13:23

I would use those 'plant pot' style stilts from the elc for an authentic sound if it were me, but ymmv :)

peggyundercrackers · 08/04/2015 13:31

i thought everyone had heard of pony girls... laughing a coconut halves for shoes

meowth · 08/04/2015 15:00

Mine's a bit more... niche. I like switching from sub to domme and pegging my guy. he loves it, thinks its very sexy.

i also like very rough sex with very loving aftercare. both my and my OH know about our own boundaries and such and knows that everyone is very different. he doesn't like rough as such. but I love when his dom side comes out. very sexy, i love being put in my place (in the bedroom, he has another thing coming if it's outside of the bedroom!)

confusedoflondon · 08/04/2015 15:07

Dp likes to dribble into my mouth during sex. Is that a fetish? Not sure Hmm

TokenGinger · 08/04/2015 15:13

confusedoflondon - from his widge or his mouth?

confusedoflondon · 08/04/2015 15:18

From his mouth. Not spitting just a dribble from a couple of inches away.

confusedoflondon · 08/04/2015 15:19

It is sexy at the time but just sounds a bit weird and fetishy written down HmmGrin

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 15:20

confused I do hope he is not asleep.

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 15:22

It is a fetish. It's called snowballing. It sounds the opposite of sexy to me, bleurgh. Each to their own etc!

ROFL at coconut halves.

I am not googling cake farting. I don't know if I want to correct the image I have in my mind, which is fairly hilarious.

confusedoflondon · 08/04/2015 15:22

That's made me laugh!! No he's on top , looking intently at me when he does it he's definitely awake Grin he doesn't do it every time should add

maras2 · 08/04/2015 15:23

Back in the 1960's me and now DH read about Pony Play in Forum magazine < well he was an art student Grin > Pissed one night we decided to give it a go but left the tail up the arse bit out.I fell off his back and fractured my coccyx and as I lived in the Nurses Home was threatened with eviction as men not allowed plus the noise we made disturbed the other residents.Blush So much for the 'swinging 60's. Grin

confusedoflondon · 08/04/2015 15:25

Just looked at snowballing its not that it's no semen it's just dribble.

JaceyBee · 08/04/2015 15:31

My man really wants to try that nuru massage thing, where I cover my whole body with nuru gel and slide myself all over him and kind of massage his whole body with mine. I'm said I'm down with trying it but he has to clean up!

Mouth dribbling I would not be happy about!

squizita · 08/04/2015 15:31

Haha just noticed 69 posts. How apt. Wink

meowth · 08/04/2015 15:31

i love spit, being slapped, choked. all with safewords, of course. if i don't want it to continue, it doesn't continue.

I like to do all those things that mumsnet don't like in porn. however, i love it. DP doesn't, really. bit of alcohol and he's fine, when im drunk i call DP daddy.

meowth · 08/04/2015 15:32

oh! AND i'm buying a horse riding crop and a wolf tail butt plug! i can't wait!!!

JaceyBee · 08/04/2015 15:34

I want to try pegging him Blush he's not convinced yet though!

TokenGinger · 08/04/2015 15:37

What's pegging?

thenextday · 08/04/2015 15:38

I am on a cafe with tears rolling down my face here.
Coconut halves......
Oh you lot are great.
This thread is destined to be a classic.

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