Do you have a fetish?

[NameChangeSoStrange]

NC'd as both mother and a close female friend know my MN name and quite frankly don't fancy them reading this (or knowing it is me when they read this at any rate).

I was wondering if any MNetters have any fetishes?

If you don't want to say what it is that's fine just curious how many people have a specific niche - is it as common as a phobia (the opposite presumably) or is it a little more rare?

I find them fascinating because I'm curious if there is normally a specific cause for a fetish and would be interested to see what posters post on here.

I would say my fetishes or more aptly for myself, turn on's is a little bit of dominance (the other person) but not to the extent of being abusive/nasty. I also like the thought of more than one man at a time (though in reality I'd hate this, so no idea why my mind likes it).

I know it's a very nosy question but as we are all anonymous I thought I'd see what others say.

MNHQ feel free to delete away if a fair few are offended.
Feel free not to answer if you really don't feel comfortable nobody will make you.

Thanks for engaging if you do answer :)

~NiC~

[TokenGinger]

Googled it. I do not want to try pegging.

[thenextday]

I've always fancied pegging.

[pocketsaviour]

Pegging is using a strap on to penetrate a man anally.

Or if you want it to sound hotter:
Fucking a man in the ass

I tried to get my ex into it but no luck :(

[meowth]

jacey my guy had that fetish of butt stuff anyway, i asked him how long since he knew he liked it, and he said oh i always have. awesome. so i went out and bought a shitty dong and harness, too big at the head, got a new one, too plastic-y, then 2 week ago I bought the best of the best.

See, my guy is as straight as they come but quite curious (we're still really, really young so never had the oppertunity to explore with the opposite sex, this is also a fetish of mine, seeing my guy with another guy) so he wanted to know what a real one would feel like. So I got a Doc Johnson UR3 realistic dong, it feels and looks SOOOO real. it's amazing for both of you! he has to want it though. i got a very sexy rodeOH harness, too. he loves it, i love it, you just gotta keep talking about it.
OR both do MojoUpgrade! It's a sex quiz that compares what you two would like to do with/for each other/yourselves. absolutely excellent.

Or, while you're playin', stick your little finger up his bum. I bet he'll love it! this is not what I did after weeks of seeing if he wanted it

[meowth]

also UR3 is the most realistic on the market, so it's the closest thing we'd get to the real thing without getting the real thing.

Pegging is extremely fun, just make him take his hand off himself, because it makes 'em finish SOOO quick. not sexy.

[warysara]

Pegging is, erm, interesting. Read, but not at work, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)

[thenextday]

Are we all googling Mojo Upgrade?

[ImperialBlether]

I don't understand why people like being choked. Who instigates it the first time? Do you tell a man to choke you? How the hell do you know you want to be choked? And how on earth would you know you could trust a man to stop in time? Or does the man suggest it? I'd think I was with a serial killer if he suggested choking me.

[goodasitgets]

I like a hand on my throat. Only with people experienced in BDSM/kink
Also pinwheels, nipple clamps, usual stuff

[meowth]

it's not pushing down on your throat, it's squeezing the sides, slightly. you just talk beforehand, move his hand to your neck. and I trust the guy I'm with. it's all about trust and communication.

yy to pinwheels! DP loves his back being tickled and stuff, sends shivers down his spine, so really wanna get a pinwheel.

[JaceyBee]

Thanks meowth, that's really helpful! Been looking at harnesses and dildos but so many of them look cheap and crappy. I only want a smallish one though, don't want to scare the poor lad! [wink

Will def take a look at mojo upgrade with him later too

[NotLoveActually]

I like lots of things, being choked (a little), held down with my arms above my head, my shoulders being bitten, and dh wrapping my hair round his hands and pulling really hard during sex pegging, not so much

[NotLoveActually]

Oh, and have a well used paddle and whip. Once had a brilliant pair of leather buckled handcuffs but they broke never found ones I like as much

[pocketsaviour]

The idea behind choking is that when you restrict oxygen flow during sex (especially just before orgasm) it gives you an extra "kick". It's sometimes referred to as "breath play". Some people also get off on the submission aspect.

It is risky play though and I would never do it with anyone who didn't know what they were doing. You can get the same effect by holding your breath as you're getting close to orgasm, with zero risk. (apart from the risk of your partner asking why you've gone bright red in the face and you're doing that weird pursed lips thing, LOL)

It's the same thrill that ends up with people dying from asphyxiation from either hanging themselves or putting a plastic bag on their heads while wanking. So, you know, go really carefully!

[TokenGinger]

Hmm, does penetrating a guy in the arse with something shaped like a dick not worry you, that actually he might want dick instead of poom?

Not criticising, genuinely wondering! I've never had a guy who wants me anywhere near his junk.

[JaceyBee]

No not really, I think sexual orientation is a bit more complex that what you stick up where!

I found a really interesting article about it, will try to dig it out...

[JaceyBee]

Here it is, very thought provoking!

jezebel.com/5987888/if-you-want-a-more-thoughtful-boyfriend-try-pegging-him

[Swingball]

I want dh to wear a Spider-Man suit. Which is a sort of a gimp suit I suppose, although I don't think I'd like one of them.

[MadeMan]

^"Pegging is, erm, interesting. Read, but not at work, en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pegging_(sexual_practice)"^

Excuse me Miss, I did it wrong and looked up pegleg.

[onlytheonce]

I'm curious about pegging and think I'd like it. But whenever I've tried to broach it with a woman they seem to think I'm gay/bi. They don't seem to get that I want a woman to do it with, not a man. (And seeing as quite a lot of gay men do seem to like things up their bum, why wouldn't it be pleasurable for straight men too?)

[newbieman1978]

Probably a bit tame and maybe not even a fetish but I find it very hard to like anything other than a thong or g-string clad lady. Probably stems from my first girlfriend who wore them, I didn't know they existed before that!

All the women I've had relationship have been happy to wear them and my now wife rarely wears anything else now.... She'd never wore one before we met but asked what I liked and got some.... She's great!

My wife has a friend who's husband only likes white M&S briefs, like the most basic ones.... So I guess it's horses for courses.

Someone once told me... If you can think of it, someone will find it a turn on.

[WildBillfemale]

I've always got a bit flustered around handsome young vicars, forbidden fruit and all that...........

[MadeMan]

@WildBill Dougal McGuire?

[Branleuse]

mine is handling half the tenors in a male voice choir

[MadeMan]

Don't handle them too tightly, or they won't be singing tenor for long.