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Do you have a fetish?

300 replies

NameChangeSoStrange · 08/04/2015 01:43

NC'd as both mother and a close female friend know my MN name and quite frankly don't fancy them reading this (or knowing it is me when they read this at any rate).

I was wondering if any MNetters have any fetishes?

If you don't want to say what it is that's fine just curious how many people have a specific niche - is it as common as a phobia (the opposite presumably) or is it a little more rare?

I find them fascinating because I'm curious if there is normally a specific cause for a fetish and would be interested to see what posters post on here.

I would say my fetishes or more aptly for myself, turn on's is a little bit of dominance (the other person) but not to the extent of being abusive/nasty. I also like the thought of more than one man at a time (though in reality I'd hate this, so no idea why my mind likes it).

I know it's a very nosy question but as we are all anonymous I thought I'd see what others say.

MNHQ feel free to delete away if a fair few are offended.
Feel free not to answer if you really don't feel comfortable nobody will make you.

Thanks for engaging if you do answer :)

~NiC~

OP posts:
pocketsaviour · 08/04/2015 21:45

I don't do much PIV sex anymore but when I used to - and I did like a rough fucking - I did used to get cystitis and/or thrush with annoying regularity.

On honeymoon, my H banged me so hard that our bed vibrated across the tiled floor and slowly drifted into the middle of the room. We were confused as hell when we finally collapsed in a sweaty heap Grin

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:46

I was asking a bout an apparent miracle cure for thrush, not about strange sexual practices that was wildbill Smile

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:47

my cervix is disappearing up into my abdomen as we speak...

handfulofcottonbuds · 08/04/2015 21:48

That's what I meant Wink

wildbill is obviously curious Grin

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:49

bill could be wilder than she looks...

lostmymarblesbutfoundthewine · 08/04/2015 21:52

I had a couple of dates and he opened up he liked scat...

I was clueless, I'm open minded but just not for me. especially as he said it would make him cum on the spot if I rubbed it all over my face Envy

lostmymarblesbutfoundthewine · 08/04/2015 21:52

meant to say. has to Google

pocketsaviour · 08/04/2015 21:52

Funny AF that was my reaction when the doctor suggested I have an IUD. Grin

My capacity for rough sex has definitely diminished as I've got older. But then I've also quit smoking, binge-drinking and headbanging to metal bands. At some point you just have to stop doing shit that's not good for you Confused

handfulofcottonbuds · 08/04/2015 21:53

Oh no!!

Must not google, must not google!!

I was Blush last time my laptop needed repairing. Flipping MN

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:54

amen to that, pocket Smile

WildBillfemale · 08/04/2015 21:54

Not compared to this lot AFSmile

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:55

I wonder if anyone has a hankering for feathery stroking

Now that would be indefensible Smile

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 21:56

ach, Bill

I reckon them what overshare yap about it are not getting any at all. Don't believe all you read... Wink

MadeMan · 08/04/2015 22:00

"I wonder if anyone has a hankering for feathery stroking"

They wouldn't allow anyone near the chicken coop at local petting zoo last time I was there.

Maybe someone was nicking the eggs.

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 22:01

"petting"

< screams >

MadeMan · 08/04/2015 22:04

Yep, don't be trying that petting behaviour at the local pool AF; lifeguards they don't like it.

handfulofcottonbuds · 08/04/2015 22:06

But I did have a video of a fit guy licking a dirty flip flop AF Sad

MadeMan · 08/04/2015 22:07

You sure it was a flip flop? Maybe he just dropped his Walls Funny Feet ice lolly in the sand.

WildBillfemale · 08/04/2015 22:09

I did once look up ponchos on etsy

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 22:09

I believe you, handful. You have an honest face. come on, it's you that loves the mucky footwear

Did I mention I have lots of pairs of fecked flip flops languishing in the bottom of my wardrobe ?

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 22:16

My DH tried that feathery stroking shit. I soon beat it out of him. With a flip flop.

I have to say though that doing it to someone else is a nice, rhythmic, relaxing movement to get to sleep and much less sweaty and constricting and arm-numbing than cuddling, which always seems so much nicer than the reality.

AnyFucker · 08/04/2015 22:20

it sets my teef on edge

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 22:21

That would be the stroking, not the beating Grin

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 22:21

Bugger

BertieBotts · 08/04/2015 22:22

I hate light touch in general. Apparently it's to do with my sensory ishoooos