HOBBITS BAR - still finding it hard to move on ......(part 3)

[greenberet]

here we go ladies & drifting dogs welcome too of the harvey kind!

grab your drinks - , and izzietinis dependant on time of day & how we are feeling

Original thread

Part two

anyone welcome, new, old, lurkers we share with you all.
no requirements re posting as & when, one offs, rants, extreme rants, blubbing we dont mind, we've done it all .

we like songs, we like pics, we like humour, we like the words "twunts" and "fuckwittery" & we send each other often!

Our motto KOKO and our theme tune

join us

Right WWK, it's tenpin bowling again tomorrow. And this will be gooooood!

We've had The FormidableMrsC enjoying the spectacle in court today, Why having had the same recently, iwas getting one over on Sid.....

I hope he gets smashed to smithereens. We all do.

When you write about the past, I cannot believe that you can be talking about yourself. And that, my lovely, has to be the best implement I can pay you.

You will get your certificate of survival, but you will NEVER be "just another Pom Pom shaker".

I wish you every success, every happiness. And we ALL want to hear about life on the outside.

Erm, hate to spoil the party, but this is another step towards that izzietini .. Blimey, I think when I get there, I may get some of your gins down my neck in celebration can't stand the stuff

Thinking of you, and all of us very much with you in spirit. Hope the time passes quickly tonight

Compliment, not implement!

You calling me a 'tool' Izzie?

I know what you meant - and I am laughing my head off!

Wonders never cease...guess I'm back on planet earth!

starts that thread I threatened...^Dear Izzie

Will that make me a legend of MN? In the style of Mr WT not SW as he will have spontaneously combusted Oh shit

You could write a book about me, and we could both coin in the royalties......and share our small change with the others on here and buy them each a mansion.

In fact, we could do a Harry Potter style series. Plenty of material here. Gun toting lunatics, Lycra wearing twats on wheels, royal connections......oh god I actually forgot Sid! Actually he must qualify for a contract of his own......

So, I've got my lineup for the mini series. Pics of the ex's exciting life with Nutty Nora. Obviously we need to bulk buy padding for him now.

And there's a picture of me looking thoroughly heartbroken

So come on ladies. bobs suggested a gallery. So, let's have your pics for the calendar, mini series, blockbuster just to take the piss

Ha Izzie I posted pics of a child catcher, a weasel and the grim reaper last Thursday - or rather I posted links - haven't worked out how to show the actual pics!

I guess mine would be along these lines...

spiritwingsblog.files.wordpress.com/2014/03/seamus_the_leprechaun_10_by_boggleboy.jpg No guesses as to the nationality!

Aww WWK great post. Yes I identify with the not wanting you to have friends and being on the thick side - and I'm not even blond!!! It's great you've made so many friends - your thread proves that. Amazing how many people have delurked to post. Hopefully we can have a group toast tomorrow night??? < daydreaming about everyone typing "cheers" at the same time> . then a big house party - Hobbit's cooking

Was mulling over Songs for WWK for tomorrow

The Final Countdown - Europe ...obvs!

Also - God is Working his Purpose out - it's those words "nearer and nearer draws the time" !!!

bobs here he is

Here we go bob for tonight

Go go go WWK, we are all with you

www.youtube.com/watch?v=04854XqcfCY

I've paid my dues
Time after time.
I've done my sentence
But committed no crime.
And bad mistakes ?
I've made a few.
I've had my share of sand kicked in my face
But I've come through.

(And I need just go on and on, and on, and on)

We are the champions, my friends,
And we'll keep on fighting 'til the end.
We are the champions.
We are the champions.
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions of the world.

I've taken my bows
And my curtain calls
You brought me fame and fortune and everything that goes with it
I thank you all

But it's been no bed of roses,
No pleasure cruise.
I consider it a challenge before the whole human race
And I ain't gonna lose.

(And I need just go on and on, and on, and on)

We are the champions, my friends,
And we'll keep on fighting 'til the end.
We are the champions.
We are the champions.
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions of the world.

We are the champions, my friends,
And we'll keep on fighting 'til the end.
We are the champions.
We are the champions.
No time for losers
'Cause we are the champions.

And for this morning, WWK, I for one will be pleased when today is over. Big big hugs, stay strong. Nearly there

www.youtube.com/watch?v=pO40TcKa_5U

www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQ7iZ-cxyA0

Yey! Go WWK! Waving Pom poms and all that malarkey, give me a W, give me a W, give me a K, give me a WWK
Keeping everything crossed for you honey, x

for you WWK

as loud as you can

big hugs & strength for todayxx

WWK wishing you the very best outcome today. I have a feeling that he will finally realise that he can't control and dictate and treat you like shit and get everything his own way any more. You are one strong lady and an inspiration to us all.

can anybody answer me this as think I may have been goaded on twitwoo again - do you know anybody else in their 40/50's who work in a professional environment in a new relationship that week in week out post a loved up piccie of the two of them for the world to see.

maybe im out of touch but if this was me the last thing I would be doing is posting it on twitter but then I dont work on ulterior motives and Im not inot postng every minute of my life on twitter anyway so interested in views - may post on chat later as intrigues me

Well I don't use twitter - leave it to the younger ones! Also my stbx is the opposite in that he doesn't want anyone to know what he is doing. Sounds like goading....try to ignore. xx

Hi Green my love, as WWK is rather busy today, I have popped up to remind you not to indulge in Internet stalkery gubbins, why do it? You know you're not going to see something good :(

It will only upset and enrage you< As it would anyone> they are a selfish, entitled, inconsiderate pair of empty headed fools.

I personally hate social media, it gives me the rage, but thats probably because I'm an old gimmer, stay strong my lovely, it's all fake anyway, take care of yourself, and step away from fuckwit book, and twatter, x

Tee Hee, Fuckwit Book and Twatter, God i am a certified genius!

Hobbit

Update on WWK's thread from MrsC - things are "progressing" !!!

WWK thinking of you today and hoping you get the outcome you deserve. Thanks for the update Bobs.

Izzie pleased you are back!

Green I don't do social media neither but I would think they put things on there for affect. If you are genuinely happy you don't need to tell everyone about it. It is goady and done to hurt you, please block them and then you won't be tempted to look. Would you rather be in your shoes living with your children and who comes over as a lovely, caring lady or him with his bit on the side and selfish outlook. Easy answer isn't it? So he has nothing to goad you about because you wouldn't want his life. Take care x

Thanks Bobs! I have just lost hours reading this thread!

Actually is a tiny bit reassuring that is me not the only one struggling. He left nearly two years ago and I still feel bereft, useless, desperate and see his point of view before mine. When will the misguided loyalty stop? Also have teenage boys, they see him as I encouarged that at the start. Kinda regreting it now they play happy families (I don't think so just feels like it sometimes) with heavily pregnant OW.

First mediation on Thursday. Unfortunately two years down the line his circumstances have changed so there is less money available for the boys and I. He also seems to have recovered from any guilt or sense of obligation. Message, do legal stuff rapidly everyone!

I hope WWK posts, I have been following from the outset and really really want to see GG dispense harsh justice.

Hello Fuckit, love the name! Welcome sweetheart, to our not so merry band, WWK has posted that she is now divorced on her own thread, but no more details yet, will keep everything crossed for her.

Hi Fuckit glad you made it over here and I'm sure you've enjoyed all the reading!!!
Hobbit's doing mediation too - just starting. don't think many can actually help with the legal stuff (except WWK of course) but we at least try to prop each other up/have unintelligible rants etc!
I think most of the others on here have DSs - how old are yours?

I'm off back to WWK's thread - exciting stuff!

They are 20, 17 and 16. Old enough to be legally adults so no maintenance for them, young enough to still need some support. So, whilst it sticks in my throat I need to go for spousal. The added complication is that although I work my job is not secure due to ongoing health issues which seem to get a worse prognosis I every time I see a different consultant. Realistically there are no assets, that is a whole story on its own, only a huge disparity in income. I have no choice but to try and get spousal on the dreaded joint lives basis. I wonder if I hate that idea even more than he does?

As I said on another thread. Life is shit sometimes. But. I will KOKO.

Hi Fuckit, are you sure about your two younger sons? I'm wondering if they are still in education. I'm sure you know your stuff, so apologies, but will send the link anyway, just in case
www.adviceguide.org.uk/wales/relationships_w/relationships_children_and_young_people_e/relationships_child_maintenance/relationships_child_maintenance_2012_scheme/relationships_child_maintenance_eligibility_and_rules/the_2012_child_maintenance_scheme_how_old_are_the_children.htm