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Still finding it hard to move on......

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Hobbitwife001 · 28/01/2015 20:05

Hello everyone, this is a continuation of my previous thread, so a big welcome to everyone who participated on that one, and hello to anyone new who would like to join in this one.

A little recap of my story, my husband of 27 years left four months ago for another woman that I considered a friend. We live in a small village, and he has moved in with her and her son around the corner from the family home.

I have two sons at home with me, they are 23 and 19, the youngest has Asperger's syndrome and dyspraxia.

I am having counselling to help me get over the massive shock of his betrayal, for months I couldn't sleep or eat very much and started to suffer panic attacks and anxiety.

At the moment I am at the nisi stage of our divorce, I have petitioned for unreasonable behaviour. I am now trying to get the best settlement I can before I apply for the absolute. Needless to say, he is trying not to provide any provision for my youngest son, and has put forward a 50/50 proposal for division of the assets.

So, let's carry on ladies shall we?

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Hobbitwife001 · 08/02/2015 17:50

Well, I've just got home from work and caught up with you lot, very interesting reading,, you're a clever bunch ain't cha?
Having my tea now, ( we call it that oop North ) a pot noodle and a Smirnoff ice:) classy bird, me.
Catch you later, recorded the rugby this morning. The Scottish team come very highly recommended by Font, so will have to check for meaty thigh action before I can give my opinion.

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Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 17:54

Scottish team, count me in there! I love a Scotsman. can't say the same for rugby

iwashappy · 08/02/2015 18:37

I notice Drifting hasn't posted since you bunch of hussies were squabbling over who would have him. Hobbit and Izzie have you gone off my husband? offended!!

Hobbit you will be delighted to know that my husband... is not Welsh!

WWK co-parent a dog,that will be something to look forward to, they are lovely even if ours still likes my husband

Izzie it annoys my husband if I say he's English so I might have to start doing that!

WWK Drifting has morals, dog, pub and feelings I might have to join in thq squabble even if I am old enough to be his mother

Like the photos Izzie!!! All your fault WWK!

Hobbitwife001 · 08/02/2015 18:49

Thank fuck for that Iwas, was getting worried there for a bit, hey, what did we decide to call them in the end? Was it Brag and Minge? I forget :)

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iwashappy · 08/02/2015 18:55

I thought you would be disappointed Hobbit! I don't think I did make a decision in the end, probably would be Brag and Minge I would think. Although I did like Sid for him. Can't remember who the lucky winner would be??

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:01

Hi iwas, just posted on your thread.

I did wonder if Drifting was a little worried about reappearing.....but I think the moral of the story is that there are plenty of decent women out there for him. I would like him to post a picture of, not himself, but what he would like us to imagine him to be. Come on Drifting, it's fun time! Then we can do " no likey, no lighty"

Your H, I still can't get that google picture out of my mind! Unfortunately, he is no longer amiable Sid, more the Grim Reaper.

Don't you dare call him English, we don't want him, thank you very much!!

As for Drifting, someone once said to me that you may be old enough to have given birth to them but as you as you didn't.......haha. And that is another story!

I miss having a dog. No, though.

They are truly lovely photos. I look a bit rough in mine though......Grin

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:02

I didn't win, absolutely not! phew

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:04

You didn't actually make a choice last Daturday. But you have. Ow, so final decision stands!I think that clear you too Hobbit

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:05

Saturday. Not Dadurday. Was getting so excited about you having picked a winner dropping some other sap in it that I couldn't contain myself

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:06

Previous post, but you have now, I meant

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:08

Probably, you said iwas. Probably means definitely. I just looked it up in the dictionary panicking now

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:20

Mix said this
Not Brad & Ang tho .......Brag(gart) & Minge
Now hopefully that has bought a grin to you face !

Haha YOU won't be grinning though, will you MixGrin

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:24

Page 5 of your thread iwas. The post of doom, I would say! breathing again

iwashappy · 08/02/2015 19:32

Just been looking Izzie. I could have Brag as short for Bragit in which case you would be the lucky winner!!! You better start dressing up girl!

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:38

Bragit and Minge....ooh that's a good idea of YOURS iwas. No, you already decided, I told you shitshitshit

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:45

Ok iwas if this doesn't put him off.....

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iwashappy · 08/02/2015 19:47

"Izzie595 Fri 30-Jan-15 15:24:58

Got it.....you wanted a famous couple but with a variation.....

Minge and Bragit

[ remember Hinge and Bracket?]"

Definitely your idea Izzie! Don't forget your boots! Just to comfort you that google picture was a very good facial likeness but the sideburns aren't as bad!!

iwashappy · 08/02/2015 19:52

You will just have to wear one of those mask things sad bastard would probably be into that, he'll like the big boobs too!!

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 19:58

How about this, then....

If that doesn't give him a case of the droopies, nothing will!

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iwashappy · 08/02/2015 20:09

I don't think nothing does Izzie, that's the bloody problem!!! x

iwashappy · 08/02/2015 20:10

Maybe if you ask Hobbit really nicely, she might take your place??!

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 20:10

Got it!!

I've never been so proud relieved to be English

www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_ROlkMOL9s

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iwashappy · 08/02/2015 20:12

He's got no problem with English women Izzie!!

iwashappy · 08/02/2015 20:14

Why is it just my husband that everyone takes the mick out of!?

Izzie595 · 08/02/2015 20:17

Why? Cos he gives it large innit!

This is me without the wig....running out of ideas now. Animal pictures next

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