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Sex doll dilemma

138 replies

ItsASecret79 · 19/01/2015 22:02

I'm so confused that I don't know what to do!

I've recently discovered that my boyfriend of 3 years has been using a sex doll when I'm out of the house!!! Our sex life is great and we have it on a regular basis so I don't quite understand why he needs to do this?!?!

He tells me that it's no different to using his hand or a fleshlight.

WTF!!!

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SignoraStronza · 19/01/2015 22:04

WTF indeed.Hmm

Jackiemagazine · 19/01/2015 22:05

Erm, riiiight....

Koalafications · 19/01/2015 22:06

Of course...

InfinitySeven · 19/01/2015 22:06

Oh gross.

They creep me right out. I have no idea why, but they make me shudder. I also find fleshlights really creepy. I did laugh at the severed foot fleshlight, but I'd leave DP if he started using them! I think on an intellectual level, they suggest that women are objects to be used, and thus are easily replaced by other objects.

I suppose like anything sexual, you have to decide what your boundaries are, and whether this is acceptable to you. If it's not, I'd tell him that you're not happy, and then the choice is his whether to give up sex accessories or leave.

InfinitySeven · 19/01/2015 22:07

I'm a moron.

Humansatnav · 19/01/2015 22:07

........Biscuit

espeon · 19/01/2015 22:07

Oh dear. 'Bottom Live' springs to mind, I'm afraid.

If it were me, I would probably laugh my head off and never stop teasing him about the thing. That said, in all seriousness, I wouldn't worry about it - I don't think it's any different to us having a vibrator or whatever.

espeon · 19/01/2015 22:11

m.youtube.com/watch?v=We2_viRYQvY

Show him this :)

heartisaspade · 19/01/2015 22:11

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RandomNPC · 19/01/2015 22:12

Of course he does

beautyfades · 19/01/2015 22:12

Sorry this is funny! But weird!

dontcallnotdating · 19/01/2015 22:13

What is a fleshlight? Also do people really use sex dolls outside of channel 5? Is it really a thing?

pumpkinsweetie · 19/01/2015 22:14

Sex dolls are weird, very weird.
Fleshlights however, are basically the same as us women using vibrators.

Kick him out before he starts smelling of smoking barbie plasticGrin

lemisscared · 19/01/2015 22:14

iinfinityseven i agree with you but what about cock shaped dildos?

Only1scoop · 19/01/2015 22:15

Was it a custom made job or just a blow up effort Grin

Sallystyle · 19/01/2015 22:17

Maybe she isn't a troll and he is really using a blow up doll!

Just in case you are real, I would LTB.

gamerchick · 19/01/2015 22:17

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gamerchick · 19/01/2015 22:19

Actually I'll report my post they're too creepy.

usualsuspect333 · 19/01/2015 22:20

Do I have to Google flashlights?

dontcallnotdating · 19/01/2015 22:20

Oh just googled fleshlight. I'd be put off by a man who used one tbh. I don't have a vibrator though, so each to their own. The sex doll is weird.

usualsuspect333 · 19/01/2015 22:20

Or fleshlights? Stupid prude kindle.

Sallystyle · 19/01/2015 22:21

I had to Usual.

It's a vibrator thing shared like a vagina/vulva and a hole!!

gamerchick · 19/01/2015 22:22

They're just like a sorta reverse rampant rabbits for dudes I think.

Sallystyle · 19/01/2015 22:22

My husband just asked me why i'm looking up blow up dolls!

I just said 'it's a MN thing'

usualsuspect333 · 19/01/2015 22:24

Good grief You can attach fleshlights to your shower

Well I never,you live and learn