Is this cheating ?

[Lilacflower]

Man and woman cuddling, holding hands, general touching and kissing on the cheek. They are both married.

Not if the man and woman are married to each other and kissing, holding hands, general touching and kissing the cheek of their spouse.......no.

And your point is?

both married to other people

Although they could be parent and child....

again, what is your point?

Lilac
This is a riddle? Yes?
They are brother and sister....haha
What's your point?

If my husband was doing this with another woman I'd be heartbroken.

Presumably you're witnessing this in rl while you're out somewhere?

No, it was me doing it, I was the woman. Not sure if I can talk about it to anyone in real life but wanted another opinion or two.

It's disrespectful as hell at the very least...

On the basis that you're asking because your spouse is doing this with a married man / woman then yes, it would be cheating as far as I'm concerned because it sounds as though there is an emotional connection between them.

I'd consider it highly inappropriate and cheating.

Have someone said you're cheating? Do you think you were?

Would you be happy with your husband doing this with another woman?

I dont think its cheating, but its something that you shouldnt really be doing

What do you think your DH would conclude if he saw it?

Well, actually it wouldn't be cheating if they were actors and this was a scene from a Hollywood film.
Hmmmm......lots of possibilities....
But we don't know what Lilac's point is, so this is a pointless post really.

YES it is cheating!

Yes, lots of possibilities. OP I'm not sure what you're looking for.

I'd think it was cheating if this was my dh.

No, Lilac, its not cheating.
Not if you asked your DH for permission and then he gave it to you.
Why ask? I presume you are an adult?
Good luck.

I just feel wrong about it, was with a colleague I've had a mad crush on that I've been trying to get over as not fair on my DH Then we had team drinks and thid happened. Feel sick about it.

Maybe tell your DH what has happened. Surely it's up to him to decide whether it's cheating or not.

Just wanted to know what people thought as I ferl guilty about it.

Yes, it is. I'd be devastated if DH did that.

The fact you feel guilty is all the answer you need..........

I can't believe how many posts there have been about people getting in these situations with work colleagues at the Christmas party What a cliche.

Yes it's cheating. You have both cheated on your partners. If your partners knew there's a good chance they'd kick you both out and you'd lose everything.

Get a grip and stop messing about ffs.