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steelchic · 19/10/2014 23:34

Psssst Daters over here !!
Come share your stories good and bad

OP posts:
jesy · 01/11/2014 08:32

Yeah I did , I had a grovling apology this am.

jesy · 01/11/2014 08:34

Think my threat of getting him kicked off team bus helped lol

DollyDreamboat · 01/11/2014 10:27

Is that someone else you already know that's connected to Mr IT jesy?

jesy · 01/11/2014 10:50

No lol I was joking when I said it

He,actually some one I chatted to of pof about two years ago I have no idea if I could get him kicked of bus but it worked enough to unsettle him.

Cruel I know but would you speak to some o e like that in real world.

jesy · 01/11/2014 12:23

Dolly

Two different men Mr v knows Mr IT lol but apart from texts nothing happened.

The guy who was shall we say Mr horny nothing to do with Mr IT ,met o. Pof two years ago but he just after sex thAt obvious x

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 13:15

So here am back to square one. No dates lined up, not chatting with anyone significant and will be spending Saturday night alone. Feel jsy ever so slighty sorry for my self. Hope everyone elese is having a nicer time.Sad

jesy · 01/11/2014 14:07

I know feeling blossom

I'm sat here treashy mag and soupa noodles

Feeling sorry for myself

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 14:18

I am watching endless episodes of freinds. I really should go out do something but can't rebothered. Am messaging a few people on Match and POF out of boredom. I have been invited out by stunning looking 27 year old. We have messaged loads in the past. Why on earth want to g out with me, tis nuts.

jesy · 01/11/2014 14:26

I've also got big bang theory on
But started to cry after seeing pics of Mr it with his gf on fB I don't think it's him I miss but the social contact,
Don't think it helps my birthday be t week n down about that x

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 14:30

Fuck mr IT, keep off FB, I tell you Smile. I am having a bit of fun chatting with people. Even my X is ignoring me now.

jesy · 01/11/2014 14:32

Every one seems to have a life but me ,

MadeMan · 01/11/2014 14:32

"I am watching endless episodes of freinds."

Oh dear, things have really got that bad, eh?

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 14:39

made yep afraid so. Though now on in the background as chatting with a few people.
jesy I feel like that sometimes but assure several people in the same boat, I find myself getting jealous of couples in supermarkets.

jesy · 01/11/2014 14:43

Meant to go to family meal tonight not going can't face it all siblings all loved up my younge st been with his gf/wife fir 20 years n she only 35

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 14:48

oh jesy you should go even a little while, at least you have an invite, more than I have, well bat the 27 year old bless him. I a literally old enough to be his mum ?

newstartforme · 01/11/2014 14:49

Hi all.. not been on for a few days but hope your all doing okay..
Im getting jaded now! Ive had three dates from match so far... all have ended in disaster.
The most recent one started off so well, he was lovely. Then I stayed the night and he suffered with ED. I was ok with it as he has a medical condition that explains it.. but the next day I heard little from him so I sent him a text saying "I get the message" I ll leave you alone.. with hindsight I overeacted hugely but I felt hurt that he had ignored me. He swore blind he contacted me.. though I never got a text?! hmm..
Anyway we agreed to meet again.. The same thing happened.. Again I made no deal out of it as I like him a lot..
So now he has gone all quiet on me.. And it does sting a bit..

jesy · 01/11/2014 14:54

I can't face it ,all the why no bf are you a lesbian looks . Lol

And nothing worse than being alone in a group of ppl x

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 15:03

new have expereinced the ED thing, I know it is hard, ( no pun intended lol) but it is not you but I did feel very let down too. So frustrating. I also feel totally jaded
jesy being single in a crowd does get better.
I am so sad just text X and we are going for a lat lunch

jesy · 01/11/2014 15:58

That the thing blossom
I'm always the single one tho it not like it has been just this year.

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 16:23

jesy one day you will meet someone, just got to give it time, you have youth on your side. Imagine being 49 and being alone and having to start again.

Life is looking up though have been messaging this guy all afternoon an have swapped numbers, sounds lovely and looks good too. No name for him yet

jesy · 01/11/2014 16:38

Blossom

My life never even started

MadeMan · 01/11/2014 16:42

"I find myself getting jealous of couples in supermarkets."

Don't be too jealous. I overheard one couple in the biscuits aisle the other week having a deeply interesting discussion over what type of multigrain biscuits to buy. Hmm

I felt like telling them to just buy some f*cking Jaffa Cakes.

Blossomflowers · 01/11/2014 16:53

jesy it will one day, keep hopeful.
made I know but I do miss those kind mindless easy conversations

Oxymoron2K14 · 01/11/2014 16:53

Jesy - get a grip girl!

Cmon, there are lots of good bloke out there if you give them a chance.

You need to do your bit too though and make the right choices. No one can change your perspective on life but yourself. Moping and appearing vulnerable will just see you getting taken advantage of.

You're in control of your own destiny. Brush yourself off, sack the past and grab life by the horns girl!

jesy · 01/11/2014 16:54

I'm not as young as you think I don't wana say but I'm not x

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