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New name, new game, less stress, more progress! (Thanks to Rottie!)

999 replies

thenamehaschanged · 19/10/2014 18:40

Here goes - thread 4 and definitely the last one now, sheesh!!

Who knew instigating divorce could be so bloody long winded!!

My last thread was 'It isn't Work Stress, it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H!'

Rottweiler solicitor (Rottie) and a non molestation order on Tuesday yippee!!

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aftereight · 24/10/2014 11:07

Fantastic news! The most important journey of your life, you should be really proud of yourself!
did you have to stuff the hamsters in your pockets?

oldnewmummy · 24/10/2014 11:25

SO pleased for you. I've just home from work in Oz and the first thing I did was check.

You are amazing.

Have a wonderful life!

DonkeysDoRideBroomsticks · 24/10/2014 11:32

Amazing. Flowers Take care x

FishRabbit · 24/10/2014 11:49

Wahooooooooooo! This is amazing!

captainmummy · 24/10/2014 12:15

Well done Name - I can't wait to hear the story!

GoulashSoup · 24/10/2014 12:34

Delurking to shake my pompoms!

Well done name. This is the first day of the rest of your life. No doubt you will have a few hurdles to jump but I have no doubt you will overcome them. You are one tough cookie!

I will raise my glass to toast your future tonight (any excuse). I hope you can enjoy a guilt free glass of wine tonight too x

AcrossthePond55 · 24/10/2014 12:57

Wonderful!!!!

Early morning here. What great news to wake up to!! A new day is dawning for you!!

GarlicOctopus · 24/10/2014 13:10

So proud and pleased for you, Name Flowers I'm sure there will lots more exciting (??!) news as cold reality tries to bash a way through Twunt's self-delusion ... the point is, it's YOUR story now! I'm happy to think of you starting it with your children and hamsters safely around you, Rottie watching your back, and wine on your parents' kitchen table :) Enjoy!

MissBlennerhasset · 24/10/2014 13:19

Well done you!! So happy for you!

AcrossthePond55 · 24/10/2014 13:25

My above post was from bed in my dark bedroom. Woke up, grabbed my phone & checked before I even turned on the light!

Now sitting with my cup of coffee, just want to say that I hope you are having/had a safe journey to your parents.

Looking forward to hearing about your 'James Bond' escape!! Is Rottie going to let you know when the email is sent?

AdoraBell · 24/10/2014 13:41

Fantastic Name, and a fantastic update too.

Hope DDs have a wonderful half term leading into a new peaceful and abuse free life for all of you.

Thanks Wine and Cake all round.

Itsfab · 24/10/2014 13:48

Just been out with annoying DD and lovely DS and was thinking of name so much I forgot my chocolate that DD's bad behaviour has made me want. 1000000000000000000000% worth it. And my fat bits thank you Grin,

lexiferluther · 24/10/2014 14:16

Yet another person delurking to say what a fab update that was to read. So relieved for you that it all went smoothly this morning.

LemonDrizzleTwunt · 24/10/2014 14:18

Does anyone know how far away name lives from her parents? 6 hours have passed and she hasn't said anything, and whilst I'm aware that this thread is hardly the centre of her universe right now (understatement), I am beginning to worry there have been complications because she hasn't posted. Think I'm just on edge because of her escape this morning!

dollius · 24/10/2014 14:50

I am also worried that this tosser she is unfortunately married to will consider himself above warnings from lawyers etc and bombard her with calls. Thankfully I don't think he knows where her parents have moved to.

ninawish · 24/10/2014 14:59

we have liftoff!!!

well done

Hope all is well xxxx

AcrossthePond55 · 24/10/2014 15:06

I'm sure she's fine. If you think about it, she's been under such stress about leaving that between the escape, the drive, the arrival, and the settling in she probably is exhausted. I hope she's cuddled on her parent's sofa with DDs taking a long, well deserved nap.

Plus, who knows what her parent's internet situation is. Names may have switched her phone off and if her parents don't have a computer she may not be able to post an update until she switches her phone back on.

No news is good news.

orangefusion · 24/10/2014 15:12

A glass is being raised to you here in China too name.

You have a global network of women cheering you on.

DeMaz · 24/10/2014 15:12

Friday 24th October 2014

The beginning of the rest of your life! Your amazing life!

I take my hat off to you!

LemonDrizzleTwunt · 24/10/2014 15:12

You're right, I'm probably worrying completely unnecessarily.

I am a worrier.

PetuliaGristle · 24/10/2014 15:29

Delurking to congratulate you name looking forward to hearing your next update - it's a new day, it's a new dawn...

thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 15:45
Grin
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thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 15:47

oh bloody hell honestly, I've been trying to get on here for the last 3 hours but my parents internet has died so we've had to buy a day through BTopenzone haha - typed a huge long message to you all and then it lost it.

Right coming back with full message now!!

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LemonDrizzleTwunt · 24/10/2014 15:50

Oh name! Phew! Was going to give it until sundown and then launch a search party Wink glad you're ok xx

WellWhoKnew · 24/10/2014 15:52

I misread that and thought your parents had died....

Thank Goodness you are okay. Please be careful.