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New name, new game, less stress, more progress! (Thanks to Rottie!)

999 replies

thenamehaschanged · 19/10/2014 18:40

Here goes - thread 4 and definitely the last one now, sheesh!!

Who knew instigating divorce could be so bloody long winded!!

My last thread was 'It isn't Work Stress, it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H!'

Rottweiler solicitor (Rottie) and a non molestation order on Tuesday yippee!!

OP posts:
NettleTea · 24/10/2014 09:22

Thank goodness xx

PoirotsMalevolentMoustache · 24/10/2014 09:24

I've just managed to catch up for the first time since yesterday morning and my heart was in my mouth the whole time.

Name You are beyond freaking awesome woman!! I have tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat reading that you're out. Feckin A!!!!

Sending you all the well wishes and good luck in the world. Well done.

BeyondPreparedForHell · 24/10/2014 09:26

Weyhey! Well done name :) Flowers

Lemonylemon · 24/10/2014 09:28

FANTASTIC NEWS!!!!!! Keep going. Good luck! Will wait for your update later.

Well done!!!! A new life for you and your DDs x

CarbeDiem · 24/10/2014 09:28

Thank God!
Well done name, have a safe journey xx

Outflewthewoo · 24/10/2014 09:29

Woo-bloody-hoo! Well done you. Unmumsnetty x

wallaby73 · 24/10/2014 09:33

How many of us have been checking our MN app on our phones possibly illegally whilst driving in hitting refresh repeatedly?? I know i have, and when i saw that he possibly hadn't come home i had a panic.....then saw name's update and shouted "YEESSSS!!" aloud, and looked to the sky expecting fireworks!! So well done Name; as chaka khan said, you are indeed every woman, it's all in you!

MammaBooBoo · 24/10/2014 09:37

Another de-lurker! Congratulations Name! It's been a long time planning and stressing but you've done it!! Enjoy that Wine you deserve every drop!

OvertiredandConfused · 24/10/2014 09:49

Fabulous! So, so pleased. Well done Name. Drive safely.

tribpot · 24/10/2014 09:53

Fantastic news, keep going name. Keep safe.

Zazzles007 · 24/10/2014 09:53

Marvelous, marvelous, marvelous news Name!!! You've proved that shit head wrong, and played him at his own game, getting you, the DC and the hamsters out safely. Just fan-bloody-tastic!!!

and just for you Name Thanks Thanks Thanks Brew Brew Brew Cake Cake Cake Wine Wine Wine Grin Grin Grin

nemno · 24/10/2014 09:54

I replied early on in your first thread and have been willing you on remotely ever since. Good luck name. You've done so very well and I wish you the fantastic future you and your girls now can have great expectations of. All down to you. Really well done.

hedwig2001 · 24/10/2014 09:54

So pleased to read your update. Well done! Freedom awaits.

pinkandstripey · 24/10/2014 09:57

So so so so pleased for you! Massive well done :)

/wipes away a tear

Bobtailstrikesagain · 24/10/2014 09:58

Excellent news! We will be having a glass of vino or ten in your honour later.

Stupidhead · 24/10/2014 10:01

Whooooooooop! X

SouthernOne · 24/10/2014 10:14

I cried reading your update. Tears of joy, you rock girl:)

Drive carefully!

Wishing you and your girls a long, happy and peaceful life X

myfriendflickadee · 24/10/2014 10:23

Good luck! It's the first day of your new life Flowers

trackrBird · 24/10/2014 10:28

Hurray! Grin
Well done team name!

FunkyBoldRibena · 24/10/2014 10:31

Get in Name!

Nice one - we are all chuffed to biscuits. Whoop.

hellsbellsmelons · 24/10/2014 10:37

I knew this day would come but it's taken some time and a serious amount of energy.
Slow and steady won the race!!!
Well done.
Here's to your new, abuse free live!
Wine for later me thinks! I shall toast you when I have mine in my hand.

Joysmum · 24/10/2014 10:37

Omg you're amazing. Thank god you're all out of there. My heart is racing with excitement and relief for you all.

The rest of your lives starts here and now Grin

Alicebannedit · 24/10/2014 10:41

name Here are the English lyrics to Gabriella's Song from the Swedish film 'As it is in heaven'. Fantastic film and a bit hard to come by. The original singer is on this YouTube clip. Hope it can be an inspiration to those in need and a celebratory song for you!

Gabriella's Song - Helen Sjoholm

Gabriella's Song As It Is In Heaven

It is now that my life is mine
I've got this short time on earth
And my longing has brought me here
All I lacked and all I gained

And yet it's the way that I chose
My trust was far beyond words
That has shown me a little bit
Of the heaven I've never found

I want to feel I'm alive
All my living days
I will live as I desire
I want to feel I'm alive
Knowing I was good enough

I have never lost who I was
I have only left it sleeping
Maybe I never had a choice
Just the will to stay alive

All I want is to be happy
Being who I am
To be strong and to be free
To see day arise from night

I am here and my life is only mine
And the heaven I thought was there
I'll discover it there somewhere

I want to feel
that I've lived my life!

Flowers
IthoughtATMwasacashpoint · 24/10/2014 10:42

So glad you're all out and safe

Persephonepool · 24/10/2014 10:48

Well done !! So pleased. Don't let your parents cock it up!!!!!!