New name, new game, less stress, more progress! (Thanks to Rottie!)

[thenamehaschanged]

Here goes - thread 4 and definitely the last one now, sheesh!!

Who knew instigating divorce could be so bloody long winded!!

My last thread was 'It isn't Work Stress, it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H!'

Rottweiler solicitor (Rottie) and a non molestation order on Tuesday yippee!!

I haven't posted before but have read all your threads. It really seems like it is going to happen and all your planning is going to pay off at last.

I just read that you think he may be downstairs and it has made me feel, nervous and jumpy for you so god knows how you must be feeling!

I just wanted to say good luck, put on the act of your life for these last few hours, you are nearly there......

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That's the huge collective sigh of relief from everyone reading this thread!

Hooray!!!

missed it! You are there well done Name! Hooray!!

You were my first thought this morning, name .

Please be careful. It has worried me he did something that seems out of character - obviously I don't know much about him as didn't see your first thread -

Is there someone on here you trust to swap numbers with so they can let people know you are out and safe in case you can't or even send a code to phone for help if needed? I am happy to do it but clearly there are others who are closer to you.

Delurking after reading 3,354 posts to say hooray, you're amazing. Really good luck with everything that comes in the next few hours, days, weeks, and months. You've shown time and time again you're strong enough, resourceful enough and organised enough to deal with it all.
Your new life is going to be amazing

Well done, now keep driving and never look back, and make sure you enjoy that large ??later on.

Oops, I obviously take too long to type. GREAT NEWS!!

Be careful, don't' go getting a speeding ticket now.

Oh name, I've just started crying 'cos I'm SO relieved you're away. I've had a terrible night - all your fault (smile)! When I did sleep, I dreamed of you and when I kept waking up, I couldn't stop speculating on all the stuff that could go wrong today to stop your escape. And the hamsters are with you too!

But you're OFF! You did the right thing leaving in the morning. The worst is over. It really is. Yes, it'll be pretty awful with him kicking off, being a bloody pest, but not as bad as what you've had to put up with for all those years.

delurking to say woohoo - well done Name you made your plans and stuck to them.

Safe travels to you and the girls (and hamsters).

Delighted for you - it's been a while in the making but you got there.

Delighted to hear that - I'm on a delayed train and have been obsessively rechecking every 15 minutes in hopes that you'd gone

Thank god. And breeeeathe, everyone.

I thought it was haribos that you had left with along with your DD's .

Wonderful news. Onwards!

Delurking to say a massive WELL DONE

Fudeeesh fudeesh fudeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Need the extra strength ointment now! Whoooooo hoooooooooooo!

Delurking to say well done and congratulations on starting your new, arse free life. X

Another delurker.
Well done - stay calm, breathe.....

Hip hip hooray!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Name I've followed you from the beginning and am de lurking to say a massive WELL DONE!!!!!! You are an inspiration and you and your girls have a wonderful future ahead of you. I know you've expressed so much gratitude for the support you've had here but I want you to know that there are hundreds of women in shit abusive relationships reading and gaining strength from your story and seeing that it is possible to get out. You've had no choice but to 'play the game' these past few months but you've kept your dignity and sense of humour and you've WON!! You're amazing and I am so happy for you x

Fan bloody tastic!!!!!! Relief is overwhelming, I can't begin to imagine how you must feel xxx huge hugs xx

What Andy ^ says!

I am sitting here in tears and so, so relieved that you are out. Wishing you and your family safe journeying to your parents' house and on all your future paths.

Excellent well done, that survivor!

Name you incredible, utterly inspirational glorious beast! I am de lurking once again to say a massive congratulations, and that I have read every single message on every single thread, silently willing you on all the way.

Twatchops is out of your life, his shitty plastic chair qualities are giving to mean that he is never ever going to tie you down again.

Congratulations on the first day of the rest of your life, I know it sounds strange but I am so proud of you. If you're ever anywhere near Gloucester please let me know, I would like to buy you lunch, and a glass of champagne!

*going to mean! not giving!

Oh Thank God!! Well done Name!!! Brilliantly played!

So happy to think of you and the girls (and the hamsters) all on the freedom road this morning!