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New name, new game, less stress, more progress! (Thanks to Rottie!)

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thenamehaschanged · 19/10/2014 18:40

Here goes - thread 4 and definitely the last one now, sheesh!!

Who knew instigating divorce could be so bloody long winded!!

My last thread was 'It isn't Work Stress, it's emotional abuse and you're going to get divorced because of it H!'

Rottweiler solicitor (Rottie) and a non molestation order on Tuesday yippee!!

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larrybadler · 24/10/2014 06:36

Good luck Name. Much courage coming your way.

dollius · 24/10/2014 06:55

Delurking to add to the chorus line cheering you on today, Name. Please be careful now you are on hype final straight. I know you are going to your parents. Please don't let them talk you round again. Wishing you all the best.

auntpetunia · 24/10/2014 06:56

Checking in as soon as my alarm has gone off, before the caos of last day of term and harvest festivals! name be care, be safe and be happy! I went sick reading sassys comments that her ex "knew" something was up. Take your time gettin ready and get him out of the house then go go go don't worry about school you can call them on the way. Thanks

thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 07:05

Morning everyone, thank you for all your messages, I had a quick read there. I hear you about getting out Asap Thanks

Odd night so far as H didn't come home BUT I have no idea if he's downstairs or not. Daren't venture down there just yet. I was a complete bag of nerves in bed last night, my jumpiness wasn't helped by all the distant fireworks going off outside and me thinking it was H downstairs!

He phoned me at 10 past midnight but I didn't answer so that he thought I was asleep.

It could be he's here but asleep with dd1 or on the sofa, or stayed out for the night? He could have worked through the night and be coming home to go to bed for the day? Don't know. I'll know more when I pluck up some courage to leave the safety of my room!

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thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 07:06

thanks Petunia yes agreed Thanks for sharing that Sassy Thanks

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Timcook · 24/10/2014 07:06

Hi Name, good luck for today!

Stuffofawesome · 24/10/2014 07:08

Stay safe and good luck.

BranchingOut · 24/10/2014 07:19

Thinking of you today.

weebarra · 24/10/2014 07:22

Good luck today name. The MN hive is with you today.

tribpot · 24/10/2014 07:27

Please be very careful name but act as swiftly as you can today to get away.

AlexTurnersmicropone · 24/10/2014 07:34

I'm also de lurking to wish you all the best for today, I have been following wishing you well for ages but no constructive advice to offer, will be thinking of you while I'm at work today. Flowers

inlectorecumbit · 24/10/2014 07:36

Don't let this unsettle you. Chin up get down these stairs and if he is there get on with your day as normal. If it looks like he isn't going to work just get out now with the girls on the way to school.As long as you have the important documents clothes etc can wait.
Take no chances-stay safe

LosBreakingBad · 24/10/2014 07:39

Good luck, I will be thinking about you all day. Go as quickly as possible and don't be persuaded to go back by your parents.

50ShadesofGreyMatter · 24/10/2014 07:43

Friday night here, will be checking thread regularly, good luck and a speedy exit Grin

Bobtailstrikesagain · 24/10/2014 07:53

Good luck Name and take care.

Ilovefluffysheep · 24/10/2014 07:55

Definitely think the idea of show and tell is a good one for the hamsters if he does happen to be there.

So excited for you that today's the day! Stay safe. X

auntpetunia · 24/10/2014 07:56

Get yourself downstairs and get on with your day. If he's not there then pack and leave ASAP. If he's there assume he's going to work and get out of there ASAP. If he thinks he's staying home then GET OUT OF THERE ASAP!! Just another ordinary last day of term nothin special happening girls to school meeting a friend for coffee, you know ordinarily stuff. Brew for strength xxx

Losingmyreligion · 24/10/2014 08:09

Channelling 'getting out of there safely' vibes. Be safe Name.

augustusglupe · 24/10/2014 08:10

Take care Name Flowers

captainmummy · 24/10/2014 08:12

Heck name - really quite nervous for you now!

Good luck today.

thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 08:18

We're out guys!! - me dd's and hambo's - I'll be back to update properly thank you xxx

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thenamehaschanged · 24/10/2014 08:18

Kept the kids off and we're on the road !

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arowhena · 24/10/2014 08:20

Delurks to shout HOORAY

augustusglupe · 24/10/2014 08:22

Oh my god fantastic!!

MummyPigsKnickers · 24/10/2014 08:22

Oh Name, my heart is in my mouth! Thinking of you and sending you lots of strength and love...YOUVE DONE IT!!!!!!!!!

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