Is size a problem

[Dachsmeister]

Embarrassing subject but looking for an honest female perspective.

I am in a new relationship which is going really well in nearly all respects. My girlfriend is quite petite and is finding sex with me uncomfortable/painful. She has a very high sex drive, as do I, and it is becoming frustrating not to be able to make love more than two or three times in an evening without it becoming painful for her.

I fear that this is going to become quite a problem. Please help, but be gentle...this is my first ever post.

She said she is not worried as she assumed it was a size issue rather than a medical problem.

We are not strangers, we have known each other for 2 years and she has been in a marriage with no sex at all.

I would be more than happy to ease up on the sex and get her to see the doctor, I will chat to her tonight.

Thank you all

Ex is well hung. Never bled during sex. How big is it, what you think is big might not be what others think of as big. Big also doesn't equal good sex.

Has she got kids, how young is youngest and has she had much sex since she had youngest. Its probably not your big cock, something might have moved and she hasnt realised.

SHe is 30 and has no kids

Bleeding during/after sex is not normal, even if you have a monster dick

he should see the GP fairly urgently

and stop having penetrative sex until she has been checked out, I don't understand why either of you think that is a good idea

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I only brought up size as it is not poss to get all the way in without colliding with the top and causing pain.

Oral not an option really either as she has a small mouth and it makes her jaw hurt

I meant oral for her you douche! It's not all about you

Would it help at all if you posted a pic of the massive member?

Yes, we do a bit of that but she says that she has never really fully enjoyed it because she feels self conscious

AnyF, thanks, but I will politely decline. It really is not that big IMO

Don't be coy now, you think it is massive. You have implied so at every opportunity.

Thanks for the advice people. I will suggest a trip to the doctor.

Bye

Her mouth being small doesn't matter. You don't actually FUCK her mouth, you do realise this? It isn't necessary to tickle her uvula. She can just suck your ENORMOUS helmet.

Really, don't worry about being small, OP. as they say, size isn't everything...

Thank you for you reassurance SR

Bleeding during sex normally point to there being a problem. What any says, stop having sex till she is checked out

How big is it OP, you keel sating its big but not how big. I've never struggled with oral but i've got a big gob.

Oops loads of typos. I dont think being petite means you have a small fanny either. I know loads of petite woman who have birthed babies, the babies i presume are bigger than your nob

3 times a night and you're frustrated? Just you wait...

Seriously though, get the bleeding checked out. As much as you both love sex making her bleed isn't going to be good in the long run. Also, if it's a new relationship (and I'm using experience here) she may not want to hurt your feelings if you are being too rough; it can be kind of embarrassing to call someone out on their sexual 'prowess' early on. Perhaps switching positions and asking her how she prefers it at given points may be advisable.

She may have a tipped uterus - I have, and it can be very painful. I also had an ex who went for it 2-3 times a night and was rough; he wasn't a rough person, but just routinized in the way he had sex.

Only about 9" but quite fat. Not huge in the grand scheme of things.

Long cocks if you have a short fanny are horrible. I speak from experience. My fanny is so short I can easily touch my cervix.

Do you feel better now ? Have you cleaned up properly ?

And try concentrating on giving her oral. I used to feel self-conscious but you can get used to it quite quickly. She would probably be glad not to have the python up her for a while.

Lois, sorry to be graphic, but do you feel "collision" during sex?

at anyfucker

I've never thought of it as collision but yes, it's like someone poking you in the eye.