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999 replies

DeliberatelyDreaming · 15/05/2014 13:54

For everyone OLD or even RL dating. Tell us your stories, share your woe's and get and give support.

OP posts:
jesy · 25/05/2014 15:57

I really like him I lay watching him sleep last night I'd got hot and couldn't sleep.
I do t play it too cool in fact this am I thought I was a bit clingy but I needed to be steaded.
I'd love to be with him x

Goodguy11 · 25/05/2014 17:30

I think he just after sex jesy but if your happy with that then that's up to you

jesy · 25/05/2014 19:57

Good guy

He maybe but he not overtly sexual like my ex who once came to bed had sex and was even honest enough to say that what I wanted and left me in bed

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 25/05/2014 21:01

Goodguy11 What makes you say that? Hmm

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 25/05/2014 21:01

Goodguy11 What makes you say that? Hmm

Bigbird01 · 25/05/2014 21:01

Anyone else having a pity party today? Sad
I've been stuck in all day with my DCs (mainly because my DS has been so naughty I refused to take him out) and just wanted someone to give me hug. Meanwhile my ex rang at the one point in the day when all was going well so that he could speak to the kids before he went out with his date...
And Mr Beardy has broken down and unable to talk...

Some days feel very lonely - need more Wine

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 25/05/2014 21:01

Goodguy11 What makes you say that? Hmm

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 25/05/2014 21:07

Apologies for my triple post there!

Minime85 · 25/05/2014 21:46

bigbird yeah I'm feeling bit low today. Def could do with a hug and a shoulder to lean on. What do u mean beardy broken down?

Bigbird01 · 25/05/2014 22:30

Literally broken down Mini - Messaged me to say AA just arrived to rescue him...

Low days are tough, aren't they?

jesy · 26/05/2014 05:34

He dumped me

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 26/05/2014 06:59

Confused what did he say?

jesy · 26/05/2014 07:04

The old line of I can do better than him

Stupidly heart broken,got a family tea to go to today but now do t want to.

Bigbird01 · 26/05/2014 07:40

Oh Jesy. So sorry to hear that. Hope you are ok. Thanks

jesy · 26/05/2014 07:47

Not really ok but nowt I can do, cried most of the night which is daft I know.
Was dumped a year ago this week so must be me

AnnaWombourne · 26/05/2014 08:16

Folkgirl I'm a long time lurker and frequent namechanger, but I've been following your story for ages.

Its very noticable how your responses to other posters have changed over time regarding your relationship with your boyfriend.

Not so long ago if you raised a doubt, and other posters seconded that doubt, that would be enough for you to consider him as a potential tosser.

But now you are able to talk about your relationship on here, doubts and all, and if anyone tries to suggest any badness in your boyfriend you come back with an informed response based on the reality of your relationship.

I'm so very pleased for you.

FolkGirl · 26/05/2014 09:26

Thank you, Anna! Smile

Minime85 · 26/05/2014 10:04

Gosh bigbird I hope he is ok.

Low days are tough. Want to enjoy my holiday and I am but in a way wish I was somewhere with no signal so I could just completely cut myself off from messaging. No goodnight message last night and I did send him one and nothing this morning. I'd be disappointed if it was over but still so early days so it's not a biggie. Just had a good feeling it could have been great. Which had been exactly what he said too. I would just rather know one way or the other. That's just the way I am.

I'm sorry jesy hope u are ok

jesy · 26/05/2014 10:52

I don't know how to feel I'd bucked courage to tell him I liked him.
Just feel lonely all of a sudden .
I don't really have proper friends so now even more alone

UrsulaBuffay · 26/05/2014 11:24

Oh Jesy xx

jesy · 26/05/2014 11:56

Ursula

It's ok I was stupid

Bigbird01 · 26/05/2014 13:00

You were NOT stupid jesy - you just had emotions for someone you felt a connection with - like most other people on the planet!

Bigbird01 · 26/05/2014 13:08

I asked Beardy for a date... He said yes!!! GrinGrin

Doing a little 'I've actually got a date' dance now!!

Goodguy11 · 26/05/2014 13:22

Just had a feeling Waterloo grim wht jesy said call it Male intuition now it looks I have even proven right
Sorry to hear about it jesy I'm sure u will find someone better you seem a lovely caring lady
Keep your chin up

Goodguy11 · 26/05/2014 13:29

Got lluck big bird I'm sure you will be fine