i am numb

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did anyone else's dh leave them for someone else and then come back?

hi kelli....I am 41 and they are 13 and 14.

Numb - Have been watching your thread over time and just want to say I hope you are all right.

Thankyou so much sickandtired for thinking of me. I am afraid I am still in limbo land, burying my head in the sand which is stupid I know.

i've been thinking about you too, hope ur ok (ok as you can be anyway)

Have read most of this thread Numb and really feel for your situation.
When is your termination booked for? I know you said you wanted to have it booked to push you into a decision but don't push yourself too much, you are in a very fragile state. Have youhad any more thoughts about what you want to do?

How do you think Mark E smith feels?

Who on earth is he?

Mark E Smith of the Fall top Manchester band did a track called I,m Feeling NUmb it,s on the Cerebral Caustic album Check it out . Pink Floyd also did a song called Comfortably Numb but that was shite!

Kind of adds a new meaning to "i,m feeling Numb" when it,s someones name!!

sos. Didn,t read thread guess its a bit more serious than that.

Oh Numb, what a dilemma, best words of advice I have ever had and now live by it "When in doubt, DONT" Hope that strikes a cord with you.

its not stupid, its perfectly natural and certainly something I do most of the time. My only advice to you would be don't make the decision based on what you think ANYONE will think, esp. friends, family. If you decide to terminate, then do it becuase you don't have a place for the baby in your life, not cos you are worried that people will condem you as they have listened about the break up and now this has happened. Ihope this makes sense in the way I want it to. Take care x

i am still here

i am still here

r u okay numb - have thought about you and wondered what you decided - didn't want to "bug" you though

Oh i am so so sorry about your whole situation, i have only seen this thread now for the first time, you have been through alot.

I don't really know what to say but just wanted you to know there are people here to support you if you would like to talk.

Take care xx

Numb, how are things?

I've only just seen this too.
Blimey what a horrible time you've had.

Finger crossed for some happier and easier times soon.

numb - r u okay?

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i am keeping my baby. i couldnt go through with abortion.

i am keeping my baby. i couldnt go through with abortion.

Numb, I am sure things will be fine now you have made that decision firmly.

If you want to talk on here I'm listening!

Good luck

it took me so long to make my decision that the termination would have been a late-term, i tried to go through with it but couldnt.

i just feel that my life is ruined and i can't stop crying. can anyone help me. will i feel differently when the baby is born. i feel like i have antenatal depression rather than post-natal. just can't come to terms with it all. feel like my life is over. i have had so much shit i can't take much more. feel like i wish i had terminated at the beginning but feel bad for saying this. can anyone please help me?

i just need to be happy again so so sick of crying