The Dating Thread 71

[TheCrow]

Welcome to all daters :)

Is it different when it is the man that is younger? The man I am seeing is 14 years older than me and it doesn't bother me and he doesn't seem to have an issue with it.

Hi dating this thread does move really fast!!

Happy birthday jarlin hope you have had a lovely day

Hi dont good to see you here and looking strong, try not to look back - good things are coming your way I am sure!

Right have deleted what I can from phone. Laptop is broken right now being fixed soon so can't delete more emails but can do this at work Thursday as off tomorrow

One question, if your spidey senses say "no don't fancy etc" eg on a 2nd date what do you do? I could just kick myself as 2nd date with Kent Lad it was all wrong just didn't fancy and wondered should I have ended it then? People here say give 2nd chances after some dates and wondered how I should take it going forward future dates. Do I trust spidey senses or not?! Thanks

And feel lot better deleting number, texts etc. had hot shower as too tired for bath. Now just got to get past being v near his work tomorrow but don't think I'll bump into him and its something i want to do (research project).

Hi all it does move sooo fast on here.

I'm on match and bloody annoyed with it!! Why wink/favourite me if they don't plan to follow it through. I reply with a 'thanks for the wink, how are you.....etc' and...nothing???

What is the point?? I just don't get these men?

dont that list is brilliant

Am laughing a lot at No 10 and 21!!

Hope that was cathartic for you

dont I'm laughing at no 17 and 21

Thanks girlie, it really was. Reading that back...he's a bit of a loser!

Exchanged a few texts with eco warrior today.

Chatting to nicedad on POF, he seems promising.

And...I don't think I'm in love with geeky anymore. He's hurt and let me down too much.

Yes number 17. I was asking him if he had a good sense of direction. He said, loudly 'If you hold my willy it helps with my sense of direction.' I just blushed and cringed for about 5 minutes.

I think its a brilliant idea to write that list dont. Think I might do my own list about my ex, helps put things in perspective and shows what twunts they are

It was really helpful, santa. I quite enjoyed writing it . I hope he does read it! He's blocked me from everything after I said he was no good in bed and that I wasn't fussed about him...

That is a great idea Dont...i've done lists like that in my head about pofguy but writing them down is even better! Maybe that's something you should do too Hello, sounds like you're well on the road to realisation that you've had a lucky escape already though..onwards and upwards

We're all hoping for that datingnewbie! Not sure it happens that much in RL though so we'd better hedge our bets and stay online until it does:-)

Does anyone else want to know what a 'girl's car' is, or is it just me?!

A little soft top Fiat 500

He's 6'3. It looked ridiculous.

Ha ha, yes, I see what you mean!

Oh and:
22. When I told him my brother has Asperger's syndrome, he said that word makes him think of 'ass-burglars.'?! Erm...ok.

I wrote a list like that about an ex once and had it pinned up next to my door for a few weeks so I kept walking past it to remind myself that he was no good for me. Very cathartic and definitely helped.

louby have to say I have never taken any notice of those winks/pokes/so-and-so wants to meet you crap on the sites. Just don't get it and there are only so many hours in the day. I stuck to just messaging people I like the look of (and replying to messages from people I liked the look of). It's frustrating at times but it's a numbers game......I guess like with any game you have to be in it to win it.

dont the cheese & red trousers would be my deal-breakers!

Dont that is hilarious! I hadn't spotted the girl's car on the list..

It's really making me laugh. I feel better, because I can see that he wasn't right for me. I don't see him ever having a functional relationship tbh.

dont Christ what did you see in him???!! Love the list, esp 10 - eats cheese in bed Ha Ha

It's mad isn't it? How it only slowly dawns on you afterwards how completely unsuitable they were! We need to sharpen up our twat radars girls! Always listen to our gut instincts, mine was always right about pofguy but I chose to talk myself out of it..

love the list.....I don't know the full story as I must admit I haven't read this whole thread - (my kids need feeding, washing, etc ;) !!) but am hoping to pick it up as I go along....def sounds like someone you wouldn't want in your life!!

Went on match.com for the first time this evening....haven't taken the plunge and paid yet tho...