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The git is refusing to move in with his friend...

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Lemmingswife · 15/07/2006 09:06

Until we exchange contracts on our house!
I am SO angry & upset. This could take months & months.
I asked him last night if he was intending to make the move sometime next week, seen as his friend returns late on Sunday. He said "I'm not moving in with him....well not until the house has been sold & we have exchanged contracts."
He told me that he was prepared to make the move, until a friend (who he won't name) pointed out how ridiculous it would be to look after the children in the house if I ever went out & he said that it wouldn't be right to take them to his friends house.
He said that HE pays the mortgage & the TV licence and had every right to stay as long as he needed to, but he wants out too, which is why the quicker this house sells, the better.
I was so upset & furious after he came out with this last night. I cannot go on like this for what could be months, I will seriously lose it.
I would move out with the children myself, if I could.
He kept putting on a silly fake laugh, saying "Imagine me coming to this house to look after the children. How ridiculous!"
I am so cross & so upset. I cannot go through the whole of the summer like this.

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:29

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:32

No worries! Glad you had a good night tonight.
Feel really horrible, couldn't have ever pictured how horrible this would become. I feel a real nasty cow.

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:35

Gave my sister all the facts tonight though.

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:36

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:37

I feel one, essbee! I really want to just run away from it all & keep running!

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:38

It is all harder than I ever imagined.

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:38

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:39

I need sorting out! I am a bit of a mess atm.

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:43

How the hell am I going to get through this?

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:44

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:45

I am a mess! A big mess of a mess!

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:46

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:49

Hmmmmm. Can't see myself ever being the butterfly!
My own sister, who is the most on side of the lot of them, says that she can be brainwashed by my parents.
My Dad is furious that I may be taking H to the cleaners etc.

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:54

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Lemmingswife · 04/08/2006 23:56

I am a little tipsy too, essbee!
I would never forgive myself if I caused my Dad to be very ill though, I really wouldn't.

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essbee · 04/08/2006 23:58

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Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 00:00

I know, but I am feeling very horrible about everything though.

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Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 00:01

I don't want to give him a heart attack through stress, which is what they all think is going to happen.

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essbee · 05/08/2006 00:01

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Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 00:06

Thanks, essbee. Speak soon.x

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essbee · 05/08/2006 00:06

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Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 00:12

No sober dust here I'm afraid! I have had one too many red wines with my sister.

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Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 00:19

I have a messy messy head. The messiest head ever!

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DVX · 05/08/2006 06:25

Morning lw hope you are feeling ok today. Laughed at your red wine drinking!

Lemmingswife · 05/08/2006 07:27

Morning, DVX, how are you?

I am not feeling too great about things this morning & have not slept much. Cannot beleive my family think I am such a nasty person & am out to take H to the cleaners!

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