New man. Personal grooming question.

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Namechanged for this one.

I'm in my late thirties, met a new bloke, haven't done the deed yet.

So, the question I need to ask is what do men like these days with regard to pubes. I was married for 14 years and basically just kept things trimmed down there.
Don't want to end up in bed with this guy and have him turned off by my possibly 'retro' style!

I'm happy to keep up with the times but don't want to go all out bald down there if it's not necessary.

Any tips?

Good for you Namechanger. I would have done exactly the same.

I think the lack of hair means the cliterus (sp?!) is less 'protected'.

true but i would think it is supposed to be protected to prevent infection if nothing else. And the clitoris does also have its own hood.

Sorry OP I haven't read the whole thread as it is so long, but all I can say is, do what you wanna do!! If he doesn't like it, stuff him he isn't right for you.