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Dating thread no 49

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JulietteMontague · 01/04/2013 15:17

All daters welcome here.

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OhWesternWind · 03/04/2013 19:32

Have a great time Pom and I bet you look stunning. Don't forget the loo update!

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 19:34

Skinnies, blazer and heels - not too much for midweek??!!!

My pre date glass of wine hasn't kicked in yet

JulietteMontague · 03/04/2013 19:37

Pom that sounds perfect to me, I'm sure you look great.

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KinNora · 03/04/2013 19:48

That sounds perfect Pom -have a lovely time.

KinNora · 03/04/2013 19:49

Ooh, spooky

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 19:54

In taxi now!! Shaking and hot - not in the sexy way either!!! Really scared and cringey. Whhhhyyyyyyyy am I doing this xxx

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 19:55

Apols for the kisses - so uncool!!

KinNora · 03/04/2013 19:56

He probably feels exactly the same way, deep breath Pom

ohmyrainydays · 03/04/2013 20:06

Hope it goes well Pom.

48howdidthathappen · 03/04/2013 20:17

And breathe. pom Smile

48howdidthathappen · 03/04/2013 20:23

Mr R&R just asked if I wanted anything from the shop?

I replied 'cock for me'

No. I don't do subtle either Blush

Movingforward123 · 03/04/2013 20:48

Western - I can now walk a tiny bit without crutches or funny boot! I can walk with the boot and no crutches or without the boot and one crutch Grin so I'm on the mend now!

I've been on Pof alot recently and started speaking with two guys! One I Gavey number to and starting talking on whatsapp and we were talking about meeting up now he's gone all quiet Hmm

Kin - are they set to IE? I never want to do that as I don't want to feel like I'm being used for sex even though I'm desperate for some Shock

ohmyrainydays · 03/04/2013 20:59

My bloody stupid ex just set the side of my house on fire! He chucked a fag butt in my recycling bag and it obviously wasn't out properly. It took a while to go up because when I went outside for a cig about an hour later I thought someone was having a bonfire the smoke was so thick. I looked round the corner and all the black bags, bins etc were on fire. I got the kid's out and dialled 999 then my ex then went back with saucepans of water. I managed to get it out before the fire brigade got here. I'm shaking like a leaf now though, what a bloody idiot!

lubeybooby · 03/04/2013 21:01

Moving :o

But surely... well... this is how it is for me anyway

I want sex

He wants sex

I like a bit of a date first, so does he

we have the date

we have sex sex sex sex and sex

simples

there is no using really, it's a mutual thing

Being VERY clear on what I want helps I suppose. there is no clouding of the edges with wanting a proper relationship... I know that isn't for me right now.

A regular arrangement though yep I'm up for that.

JulietteMontague · 03/04/2013 21:10

Lubey is this one works out, it'll be great as he's local so it can be a regular, regular thing. Great.

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Movingforward123 · 03/04/2013 21:25

Lubey - the thing is I do want a relationship but only if I meet the right guy!

Now exp is texting me asking if we can do it again as he felt like he was just warming up! Errrrr I would love to say yes Hmm

Is there any way a fwb type thing could work with my dds dad? I'm sure that's a very stupid question Hmm but why does the sex happen to be good with him? And no one else Confused

KinNora · 03/04/2013 21:28

I'm glad you're feeling better Moving.

On the subject of IE I'm going to speak from a personal perspective here as I can't make great, sweeping statements on behalf of anyone else (well, I could, but that would make me a complete knobber)

I was brought up to believe that men spent their entire lives attempting to 'use' women for sex and that it was the job of a 'nice' girl to fend them off. At no point was there the faintest hint of a suggestion that I might want sex just as much as a man.
The net result of this is that I have not had enough sex which is just bastarding bastarding unfair.

If you want sex, then as long as you are safe, you should feel free to go out and have sex, no question of a man 'using' you - it's a mutual thing.

ohmyrainydays · 03/04/2013 21:28

It's probably good because he knows how to push your buttons. I think it could work as long as the boundaries were in place and neither of you wanted more than that.

OhWesternWind · 03/04/2013 21:29

Just had old Cakey checking I'm still on for tomorrow. He is very polite. He said thank you when I said I'd go out with him, and he volunteered to drive over to my town. Manners are good. And he's funny, and thinks I'm funny (or has the good manners to pretend). So we are off to a reasonable start.

Oh I hope he doesn't have a squeaky voice. I can't be doing with that! Lots of other stuff I can work around, but how can you talk dirty with someone with a daft squeaky voice? Or a bad accent, but I know he's local so that should be alright. People don't usually mention voices, accent sometimes, but not general timbre, pitch and tone, but they're really important in determining overall attractiveness.

OhWesternWind · 03/04/2013 21:30

Rainy just seen the post about the fire!! Omg. Are you okay?

ohmyrainydays · 03/04/2013 21:34

I'm ok thanks OWW apart from shaking like a leaf and coughing my guts up. I'm just glad I wasn't out at the time or the whole house would have gone up.

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 21:35

Not for me at all. Exit strategy helpppppppp please

ohmyrainydays · 03/04/2013 21:38

Oh no Pom what's wrong? Can you fake a call?

OhWesternWind · 03/04/2013 21:39

Just say you need to get going for the babysitter ...

TweedWasSoLastYear · 03/04/2013 21:43

Pomme

Pm anyone your mobile no. QUICK

They can text you . You make up excuse about DS9 being ill and run to the hills

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