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Dating thread no 49

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JulietteMontague · 01/04/2013 15:17

All daters welcome here.

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Snapespeare · 03/04/2013 17:42

Nameless is in the bath, so I'm popping on to wave at you all.

Sainsburys has a special on condoms at the mo. 2 x12 packs of fancy schmancy bought-condoms for £12. I'm telling myself these are delux durex and 'nicer' than the standard clinic freebies. I know how to treat a man, rrrrr. :)

incomprehensible. No no no no no no. Tests first, then unsafe if sensibilities allow.

incomprehensible · 03/04/2013 17:44

Thanks for replies.
Sorry should have clarified, no risk of pregnancy, both 45+ and I have been sterilised.
DEFINITELY an accident.
I was tested 2 years and 18 months ago, all clear, after scumbag ex was caught cheating!
Have had protected sex since with one person.

KinNora · 03/04/2013 17:48

Waves at Snape ( why aren't you in the bath with him ? Slacker Grin )

Ike what's up with him ? Can he not just steel himself for a brief coffee ? ( get Dr AD to write him a script)

Incomprehensibile oooh, thank you Blush ( I may go a bit diva ) personally I don't think it's worth running the risk with no condoms and no STD test but I ain't no authority.

MirandaWest · 03/04/2013 17:49

How many condoms have you been through Snape Wink?

ike1 · 03/04/2013 17:51

Yeah I will make hin next week Kin when the kids are back in jail...

lubeybooby · 03/04/2013 17:54

you'll still need testing though incomprehensible as you don't know what he might have

KinNora · 03/04/2013 17:55

You will 'make' him Ike ? Was that a tad Freudian ?

ike1 · 03/04/2013 17:56

All this talk about foof and cock lurgy reminds me ...I still havent had that smear yet they may as well have a good old scrape around while down there aswell...just to be on the safe side...

ike1 · 03/04/2013 17:58

Ha ha ...well...he might get lucky one day...even my sluggish libido appears to be making a long dormant resurgence. Dreamed I was shagging my first ever bf last night and his MOTHER and MY KIDS were there??????

Movingforward123 · 03/04/2013 18:01

Hey everyone

Well I've just popped in to say that after sleeping with exp a couple of days ago I now want some more action!!! Where on earth will I get it? That's the problem Confused

Scrazy · 03/04/2013 18:08

There was a lame explanation but I carn't be arsed to rearrange. Trouble is that he is the only person I was talking to as I am not on any sites. Oh well, leave it to fate and RL.

OhWesternWind · 03/04/2013 18:14

Are you mobile yet Moving? It's got to be soon! How about getting online and sorting out a date for next week?

Scrazy load of old bollicks.

KinNora · 03/04/2013 18:28

Scrazy what an arse ! I

Moving what about using Lubey and WFF's tactics ?

Scrazy · 03/04/2013 18:34

He probably changed his mind, as they do, doesn't necessarily make someone an arse, at least he text. I wasn't going out of my way in the least to meet him, as it was on my way home from work and he had a distance to come.

lubeybooby · 03/04/2013 18:42

He text really late though didn't he? After the date was meant to have happened... that is arse behaviour.

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JulietteMontague · 03/04/2013 19:06

incomprehensible I don't think it works like that. HIV for example has a transmission rate approx 1 in 1230 times. So it is unlikely that HIV is transmitted from one occasion, but you just don't know if you're going to be lucky or unlucky on any given occasion. There are also a lot of other factors that affect transmission rates.

As for other things, I have no idea but generally some things are very infectious some are harder to pick up. So if you want to go without condoms and stay safe, best to both get tested.

I looked this up (again) and I'm horrifed to see that the fellatio rate is as high as unprotected vaginal sex page down to table

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Scrazy · 03/04/2013 19:12

Lubey, it was before we were meant to meet that he text. I don't think of people are arses if they decide not to go on a blind date or something comes up. It doesn't bother me as I never go out of my way to meet someone initially. I let them do the travelling etc, plus I wasn't that bothered.

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 19:16

First date tonight with a new man! Incredibly nervous!!

Why does make up never go right on these occasions!! I look like lily bloody savage!!!

Sorry for selfish post - my nerves are in overdrive and can't think straight!!

KinNora · 03/04/2013 19:20

pomegranate I'm sure you don't look like Lily Savage, take a couple of deep breaths and have a good time, good luck

Pomegranatenoir · 03/04/2013 19:24

Really dont know what to talk about! Been texting constantly every night for a week and now I have hit a wall of nerves!!! Streeeeesssssssssss

Scrazy · 03/04/2013 19:24

Have a few good date Pome, you will be OK when you get there.

KinNora · 03/04/2013 19:26

Ah you'll be fine, get in there and get flirty !

48howdidthathappen · 03/04/2013 19:27

Pome Relax. You will be fine Smile

Mr R&R over again tonight. The power of the 'L' word Grin

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JulietteMontague · 03/04/2013 19:28

Pom remember the mantra, can't remember who said it you are the prize, you are going to see if he's good enough for you. You'll be fine.

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Scrazy · 03/04/2013 19:31

Meant have a good date, but have a few too!