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This is.. the dating chat thread, number 38

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lubeybooby · 25/01/2013 15:38

All dating related chit chat, as usual... in here

off we go! :o

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Flipper924 · 30/01/2013 21:50

And thanks as well, Ike.

The film based on this thread is going to be a blockbuster.

ike1 · 30/01/2013 21:54

Oh GOD ....I have gorn right off writing it lol....

ike1 · 30/01/2013 21:55

Its all just tooo unbelievable....

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lubeybooby · 30/01/2013 21:56

It would be mostly a horror film tbh, with flaky men and stalker women cast as zombies.

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ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:00

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ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:01

Like that???

Snapespeare · 30/01/2013 22:04

Oh! flipper it's you didn't respond before because wasn't sure it was you. Blush I am holding you very firmly in my thoughts at the moment and wishing you all the very best of everything. :)

oww your post at 21.23 gave me a bit of a lump in my throat. :) I remember someone posting to me during the voldemort bollocks 'all will be well & all will be well and all manner of things will be well.' I find myself repeating that in my head a lot, it's seeped in and crops up at moments when I don't expect it and your post made me think of it. :)

I replied ' I'm almost home too (he'd texted it in the manner of the singing lift we went up and down in...and sang :). ) it was very lovely meeting you! X!' Which doesn't go 'LET'S DO IT AGAIN! I WANT TO RUIN YOU FOR ALL OTHER WOMEN!!!!' And leaves the ball(s) firmly in his court. Which is where they may remain forever...

Did I mention I've seen him naked. Wink he hasn't sent me pictures of him naked.... But I've seen him naked with a strategically placed slogan. Got to LOVE those anti war protestors.

ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:10

Now snape you have me intrigued...usually when peeps say in their profiles that they have an alternative lifestyle its rubberwear....

KinNora · 30/01/2013 22:14

Oh bollocks, this thread is now making me feel all emotional, you are all such fabulous people that if Fate doesn't have wonderful things in store for each of you, then Fate is a giant tosspot.

Ike, I am a mass of fretting. God I wish I could carry off insouciant.

Scattylatte · 30/01/2013 22:15

snaaaappee wow. He checked your tits out?? That's a good sign.

flipper congratulations. Sorry I had to read back a bit.

lubey hope you are ok.

oww it will be ok. It really will.

So, I've date whatever number (can't remember although he keeps a tally) tomorrow to see a play with fireman. He has been a lot more communicative over last 3 days (since I changed my attitude) and referring to our coastal walk next weekend as well as tomorrow's date in a positive way.
Months ago I was in contact with a surveyor from pof. He then vanished then reappeared today (text) to tell me he had reinstated his profile on pof after taking it down following so many rejections it was getting him down. It's a strange way to recontact someone!

KinNora · 30/01/2013 22:19

Snape, I thought the ' all will be well ' was so comforting that I ordered this Vixen as my Christmas present to myself and had ' all will be well' engraved on the back, to act as a reminder that things will be ok in the end.

Snapespeare · 30/01/2013 22:23

Wink he had dreadlocks. He's anti-establishment. I find that alluring. (Rrrrrr!) he's organised santa con in London & cricket-matches against MP's , participated in the marches against the war and taken photographs in disused hospitals.

I realise you all love him a little bit now Hmm but I get first dibs.

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lubeybooby · 30/01/2013 22:27

TT just replied to my message. I'm trying to sort out face to face meet on Saturday. Blimey that will be one date he won't forget if he can make it.

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Snapespeare · 30/01/2013 22:28

KinNora I love hairy growler! I love the forks and sixpences. excellent choice.

My phone is in the other room, I might go and check it in a bit..

Scrazy · 30/01/2013 22:30

Snape, fingers crossed for you on this one.

ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:39

oooooh Snape ...............

Nomorepain · 30/01/2013 22:41

It's really lovely on here tonight!!

snape seriously excited for you

kin I'm hoping that get isn't a toss pot.

velvet sorry if I offended. I see a lot of me (and one of my close friends) in you. In the past we have settled for someone that isn't right just because its better than being on our own. But the truth is that it isn't better to be with someone that isn't right for you than to be in your own. My friend is in a bad relationship right now. She is better than this man in every single way possible but he has made her feel like she is lucky to spend time with him. He does this by making himself unavailable, by doing exactly what he wants in his life then fitting her in when he can. We can see this but she can't. I don't want the same for you. Cuthbert has been nice to you, you have shared few nice nights but it hasn't really gone anywhere beyond that. Feels like his contact is so sparse that when you do hear from him that it makes you feel wonderful and special and you forget the mental torture he has out you through. And that is brilliant but just need to be aware that he could be playing you. Intentionally it not.
You deserve to have someone that can commit properly to you. Not sure that's Cuthbert. And whilst he is in the scene it may stop you looking elsewhere.

On a seperate yet hugely positive note i am loving "all will be well"! We have got to believe that becaus otherwise why would we continue?!

Not sure what has come Over me tonight. Might retire back to my corner!!!

Scattylatte · 30/01/2013 22:42

I wish I hadn't seen your link kinnora as its payday for me tomorrow and I can't afford it.

ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:46

There are no corners on this thread...this is a roundhouse...no retirement allowed!

Snapespeare · 30/01/2013 22:54

Checked my phone.

Nowt.

Entirely possible my ME sex bomb was wiped out by meeting me, also entirely possible his 'talk soon' has been justified by dropping me a text to say he's back safe.

either way, I sit and wait I kinda like him. He's way too young

Nomorepain · 30/01/2013 22:55

Fate not get!!!

ike1 · 30/01/2013 22:58

Well why wait? why not suggest a meet up?

Snapespeare · 30/01/2013 23:03

I'm waiting. I'm not mooning around and sighing and waiting and glaring at my phone waiting...but fuckit, I want to be chased...and if he isn't chasing, I'm not game-play agonising over it. It'll be what it is.

ike1 · 30/01/2013 23:06

naw! See I wouldnt bother with that...and just suggest another time/date if i was keen....but your call Snapes...depends on if you see that age thing being a problem...