A Sex Question......

[moonblushtomato]

DH has a bee in his bonnet (or underpants) that we are not having enough sex. Just wondered what the going rate is these days?
We are in on our early 40s, have been married for nearly 8 years and have 3DCs aged 15, 6 and 4.
btw we are averaging about once a week which I'm quite happy with.

hey, never mind

OP is ok

this is OP's thread after all

I am glad things have magically reversed for you, OP. But never forget that MN is here for you, should you falter

however, next time it may be better if you stick around for the valuable advice you are asking for..or else, why bother ?

I suppose I'll get deleted again if I comment on the 'orrible whiff of socks in the air.

annie...another deletion won't blot your white-as-white copybook will it, too much ?

I daren't..the print on my copybook is very smudged to say the least

Ah you're just showing off now AF ya bully you!

Badge of honour, AF, badge of honour.

Amanda I have sympathy with Op too

knowledge of MN etiquette or not...I would have come back to my thread before now in attempt to diffuse the madness

wouldn't you ?

you simply do not post an OP like that and go shopping for 48 hours, do you ?

< pins badge on annie >

offred, I am not showing off, I have a ban under my belt...hence my knowledge of what it means (and the implications of another one)

I don't know, you might do. She didn't actually ask for advice after all, she merely asked how frequently people have sex. Admittedly she made a slightly odd comment that you had made an interesting point about her DH's mindset - but that's all we've got to hang her on.

I know, amanda...I said that about 3 months ago (it feels like)

< pops in with hot drinks for everyone >
You've all been on here a long time now, you've missed homeland and its a school night now drink your drinks and off to bed with you all.

ledkr...I have some more wine to finish, thank you

Good idea ledkr. Night all!

Enjoy your wine AF.

I will, but not too much

Amanda.. I respect your posts, I just wanted to say that

On a Sunday? You devil you
If you are near a tv put on channel 4 kookyville it's really funny

I have Piers Morgan, Kelly Osbourne interview on

sunday isn't winetime in your house, ledkr ?

do you have a problem ?

Are you really saying that posters aren't allowed to disappear for a bit after they ask a question?

That is the problem af the weekend was starting Thursday and lasting till Sunday I felt I needed to exercise a little self discipline

would you disappear though after asking such a loaded question, penny ?

yes, that can because no-one is in chains on a website, but I would like to think if I asked a specific question, I wouldn't fuck off for 48 hours

is that just me who has basic manners ?

they can

led...self discipline is a little short in this house

basic manners, however....in full abundance

Not everyone lives on the internet. People are allowed to ask questions when they are just mulling something over rather than in crisis, and it's not at all unreasonable for someone to be busy over a weekend.

just me then (that has basic manners)