His 'holidays' in bloody Thailand

[NotSoEdenRoc]

Name change.

I'm single. I've been involved in an on/off fairly casual thing with this guy for 3 years.He goes to the Far East about 4 times a year. Turns out that he goes to Bangkok and somewhere else in Thailand...I've only just found this out, he's never mentioned Thailand usually says he's going to Malaysia and/or Singapore but doesn't talk about his trip when he gets back home.

Can there be any innocent reason why a single man in his mid 40's goes to Bangkok 4 times a year ? On his own? And if it's all innocent (yea yea) why not just tell me the truth about where he goes?

I know I need to get checked for STI's. I am going to die of embarassment a woman of my age going in there, are these clinics full of 16 year olds?

But my main question here is, would anyone else feel like I do? I feel like I've lost all respect for him as a man. He's a horrible repulsive creature doing this. I feel dirty myself. I feel as if he must hate women.

Could someone PM it to me too, please

OP I hope that the clear disgust on this thread at the bahaviour of men like your exP are helping you to feel ok with your decision to cut him out of your life. You played a blinder there, my love

I hope you are ok, and the way the thread has gone hasn't upset you

For me, RL, has overtaken me somewhat. I feel very warm and fuzzy though that so many people have "got" where I was coming from.

and I am sorry that I missed so many "ditties"

I bet they were fab.

Yes, AF I'm doing fine. Not a problem how the thread has gone. I'm glad that there's been such a discussion. I'd already got the help and advice I needed so it's not like it's detracted from my situation or anything.

You sound fab, OP x

Gotta stop using the word "fab"

it makes me sound like a silly person

Hahaaaaaaaa

I'm sure it was trolled on Mumnset

love it, GetOrf!

IT WAS

It was TROLLED on mumsnet.

Well done running 50 house points

And edenroc - you sound great. Bloody well done you (must have been bloody upsetting).

But will we be deleted for the T word???

I meant TROLLIED on mumsnet as in drunken HONEST GUVNOR

Oh yes, I'm all for being trollied

Brilliant!

SSSH they will SEE.

I love Helen, Justine, Sandy and Darren

And OLIVIA

And Carrie

And Tech

And Kat

FUCK how many of them are there?

Ann!

I still think my limerick has legs. Though granted Getorf's was a touch more poetic.

I think the fact my limerick was deleted has given is a LOT more notoriety than it deserved
It is a bit crap. Sorry for any disappointment.

Rowan!