Starting Again, Moving Forward...Onwards and Upwards ! :)

[Startingagain88]

Following all your wonderful messages of love and support since my partner of 15yrs up and left for OW, my previous thread reached the 1000 post mark and so i'm starting this new thread with a more uplifting subject title!!

Its only three weeks in since EXDP left and so i know i have a long way to go...but slowly each day I'm feeling more positive and believing that my life can be wonderful without him!

Here's the link to my old thread -

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1421736-In-shock-cant-quite-believe-it-Long-Sorry

Thats the kind of attitude I like to see!
You go for it and have a lovely time sailing and chatting to new people. The more you do new things the more friends you will make and the more fun you will have.

Keep it up, this is excellent progress. Well done. Im so proud of you.

Oh well done starting. Hopefully you'll never hear from him again but if you do you'll be an ice maiden. Maybe the next time he sees you you'll be sunbathing on the deck on your millionaire boyfriend's yacht!!!!

Wow sailing! Good for you!

Sounds fabulous Starting! Im in awe and a little envious of you XX hope you meet a nice guy at the sailing club, imagine the kind of holidays you could have!

Good for you and good that the anti ds had a chance to kick in before his latest texts.

Your world is getting so much bigger already with so many opportunities and he has backed himself into a sad little corner.

I don't think you will hear any more about the house. He may go to a solicitor but they will tell him he is onto a loser.

Well done Starting onwards and upwards

xxx

Well done Starting - so happy to hear that you're feeling so happy! :)

Yay!! :o

Cor blimey Starting!! Get you!! Proper posh!!

That sounds fantastic for you. I am so happy for you.
What a great new friend she sounds.

I don't think you will hear any more about the house either. He will be so angry - and jealous!
Don't forget to keep us updated in between swanning off on your yacht!

Thanks all, wouldn't it be lovely to snag a millionare- it would make a change someone paying for me! :)

Have had a really good counselling session this morning, came out feeling really postive :)

Twunt has called me five times today and sent two texts asking me to call him- err no! :) :)

Thanks all, wouldn't it be lovely to snag a millionare- it would make a change someone paying for me! :)

Have had a really good counselling session this morning, came out feeling really postive :)

Twunt has called me five times today and sent two texts asking me to call him- err no! :) :)

Maybe this will be the impetus to change your number?? Go on - it will mean that he can't hassle you!

Kxx

Change your number!!!!!

Bloody hell Starting - you really need to change your number.

Don't make me beg you...

Most phone networks will change your number for free. I know Vodafone let you change your number once for free. It's no hassle and usually immediate, no changing your sim card etc.. You're doing so well starting :)

Good for you not contacting him back starting, but I agree with the others; it would be a good move to change your number..so wish I could see his expression when that dawns on him too.

Wow that is real self control, not replying to his texts or picking up his calls. You really have shown such strength of character throughout all this, even though at times it might not have felt like it.

Looking forward to hearing about the sailing :)

He's called you 5 times??? Heck. He really has realised his mistake, hasn't he?

And I'm really jealous about the saliing... lunch at the Yacht club, anyone??

Pimms and cue sandwiches dontcha know, what what?

DH & his mate go sailing at our local club - it organizes loads of social events, so it's a great way to expand your circle. I do admire the way you're willing to get out and about and have a go at all this stuff.

The world's your lobster!

Ladies, I need advice please, twunt has tried to call me six times today and has now sent me two texts saying that he needs to stay at the house and he is coming round tonight, i don't want him here advice please?!?!?

Have you changed the locks?

If so Id send him a short curt response back saying "I dont think so, and if you turn up here I am going to call the police"

..then switch the phone off

can you get your borhter round tonight starting? in case he shows up?

Well tough shit for him then isn't it.

He doesn't live there or have any claim on it as it your house.

Phone the police for some advice.

Do not reply. Change the locks or bolt the doors, don't answer the door or phone. It's not THE house it's YOUR house the cheeky fucker! If he tries to get in call the police. He has no legal right to be there.