To have texted DPs friend pretending to be him?

[JamRagRolyPoly]

DP got in at 5am last night, saw a text on his phone (he was there when I was looking for texts from me) from his friend saying 'strip club round the cormer' .

I outright asked him, did you go? He said no. He knows I'm very much against them. Now I'm wondering if he can lie to my face.

While he's in the shower I texted his friend pretending to be DP saying 'great night last night, how was the strip club' so his friend could potentially text back saying er you were there mate remember?

Aibu to want to know if my DP is capable of lying to my face? This troubles me more than the strip club, because then it's like, what else?

(I know tis sounds very childish btw)

I haven't ever been with a man who would want to go to strip clubs. I think it's not beyond the realms of possibility that a man who goes to strip clubs when his partner is available is likely to use porn while she's pregnant though. Actually fluffy, I'm surprised you don't take the same line on porn as you do on strip clubs - it's legal etc etc. And if not, why not?

I don't give a shite about your retirement, its completely irrelevant.

Can you address my post to you in full please? If you're going to make big statements like you do you should be prepared to back them up.

Bay, nobody likes show-off, and that's not just a UK thing

really, it's a simple point you would do well to remember during all your leisure time as a retiree

Patti

You're making a few assumptions tonight Patti, you have no idea what my stance on porn is. I haven't discussed it.

a show-of

off bloody hell

It was just the once.
How do I know this.?
Because she fcked him the day after her boyfriend left to go north.
Then I found out on that day with my powers of ESP.
(I was thousands of miles away at the time)
Then it ended because he left the country she was in.
That's how I know.
It wasn't some ongoing affair.
It was a dumb one night stand.
What a skank she was and is.
But karma came her way eventually and her life crumbled.
Evil roar.

I did make an assumption, yes. Because it seems a bit odd to me to be fine with strip clubs and hate porn. I'd like to understand the logic.

Not a show off.
I merely hope that young folks think twice about what they can make of their life instead of following, like sheep, the default 45 years of work for a peanuts pension at the end of it.
I certainly wouldn't bring any child of mine up to accept this absolutely ridiculous norm that people accept so easily.
And then die soon after getting the dumb pension.
Or can't enjoy it because they have health issues by that age given the work-stressed lifestyle they have led in the meantime.
Still, I really don't expect folks to understand.
You work your life, I'll live mine.

Bay, you would do well to spend some more time on the Relationships threads

it never ends well when the OW gets all the blame, love, really

I would say to the Op of this thread "don't have a baby with this man" with your relationship as it is

to you: don't retire with this man

hold on to your employability, and your independence...that is good advice no matter what stage in life you are at

disclaimer irrelevant post of the day disclaimer

retiring at 43. My pension form arrived today with a date of 2050

wants to cry

"I did make an assumption, yes. Because it seems a bit odd to me to be fine with strip clubs and hate porn. I'd like to understand the logic."

Where did I say I hate porn?

Yesterday... No post on Sunday

end irrelevant input

I wouldn't get too complacent Bay. Tends to bite you on the arse ya know.

kayano

I have enough money of my own to retire at 43.
I don't need a man's money.
That is the beauty of my retirement.
It's not based on any other person but the labor and thought I put into how I made my paltry 17k a year work for me.
p.s It was the fault of both him and the skank. She was my friend and would chat to me whilst plotting to fck my guy.
Like I said, she is reviled now, alone, and her life sucks.
Penniless, too.
Her ability to snare men so they would support her has finally fizzled out.
What goes around, comes around.

kayano I think I can retire officially in 2050. :(((((((

then I wish you good luck, bay (and you will need it, when the next "skanky ho" comes along)

but it still has fuck-all to do with OP's situation

Sig - I have my wits about me, obviously.
The only thing that can rain upon my parade would be serious illness or death.
And I'll cross those bridges when I come to them.

FFS Baypolar, how dare you even suggest my morals and self esteem are questionable and then come out with shit like that about the woman YOUR DH shagged. Now short of raping him I guess he voluntarily inserted his penis into her vagina.

actually bay im interested (sorry op), how did you manage that then? I earn an ok salary, not banker standard but pretty good and won't be able to retire at 43 i don't think.

PM her then, I'm not interested.

Obviously.

anyfucker
It wasn't me who focused on the darned early retirement anyway.
You all starting snapping at me for calling working till 65 twattish, which I think it is, I mean, really. All those years devoted to work....sigh...sorry...I'll leave this thread now...it's become depressing....gotta go to work soon. only 4 more Mondays to go.

Hate on me, it's okay.
xxx

Is there any chance we could move on from The bay show ?